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What is the best way to deal with racism? I get bullied everyday
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What is the best way to deal with racism? I get bullied everyday for being an asian dude. I try ignoring it but it really hurts me to hear this shit daily.
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What country are you from? Where do they bully you, school work everyday life?
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>>17094961
Own it and embrace racial stereotypes to make fun of others.
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What do the fags say, faggot?
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Ignore the racists and surround yourself with friends and family who don't give a fuck about your race.
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i love being neanderthal, nobody is better than me
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>>17094972
>>17094977

Currently, it's at work. I'm not sure why but racist asian jokes have followed me all my life.

There is a group of white and hispanic co-workers that love to do an "inside joke" giggle because they don't think I notice. Basically, everyday when we have lunch, they'll mention something asian and the word "little" or "tiny" in the same sentence to imply that i have a small penis.

Example:
>Oh my! Love eating chinese food, I wonder why that restaurant is called PeiWei *looks at me* or was it PEEWEE?
>Wouldn't it be awesome to visit the LITTLE asian countries?
>You see walking dead last night? Haha the asian dude had the tiny little pistol! Was shooting blanks dude. Everyone had a shotgun but him.
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>>17095004
Holy shit, get those assholes fired. Talk to human resources
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>>17095004
I don't know whats worse . How terrible these jokes are or the fact that they bother you .
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>>17095004
Imao but on a more serious note have you personally ever ran into someone like this? I mean you'd have to be the most insufferable bitch to be upset about something says to you as an adult. Political Correctness is breeding a batch of pussy boys that our country is gonna struggle to get rid of unless they grow a pair and stop trying to avoid trouble but instead make the best of it.
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>>17095009

Just being honest. It bothers me because I feel specifically chosen out of the group, to be a joke they all share together. There's no back and forth fun here, I've become the object of their humor and it feels disrespectful to me.

Should I just continue to ignore it? I don't speak up about it because if I do, they'd probably love it and just gather together in secret to talk about how funny it was to see me bothered.

I just want to do my work in peace really.
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>>17095020
Are you a fucking edgy child? He's at a workplace. work is bullsht enough without some fags taking shots at you daily
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>>17095004
i have to ask this but are you positive you're not IMAGINING them saying that because you're paranoid (or schizophrenic)?

if they really are, and it's persistent, i'd either talk to them and tell them you know about their inside jokes and don't find it humorous and would appreciate them stopping, or talk to someone in your company about it who will sympathize with you.

anyway man, don't let other guys make you insecure about your penis size, that sort of thing can really undermine all your confidence. i had a friend for years who always seemed to consider me on equal ground with him but once he found out that, apparently, he has a bigger penis than me, he started acting like some alpha god of sex, when before he knew it we were like equals. it was all his fault, i still don't feel insecure around him, but he feels superior around me, which is fucked.
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>>17095020

Well, that's what I'm trying to figure out. I'm not much of a jokester, always had friends that were more introverted and just did our hobbies. Am I just missing a sense of humor here? I just want to know what the best way to handle this. Just let it continue and ignore it right?
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>>17095020
Don't cut yourself on that edge
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>>17095030
>work
>bullshit
Enlisted Army medic here.
Work is what you make of it. My great grandma told me that you should work a job like you would have to for the rest of your life so you make the best of it. Why can't you or other people have a bit of fun at work and why would you let words hurt you?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5dNbWGaaxWM

Listen to communist lefty he is right about one thing at least.
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>>17095039
No dude, call them out on it if youre positive its about you.
If they dont get it then talk to management.
Like>>17095030 said work is annoying enough without your coworkers being faggots
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>>17095053
Shut the fuck up welfare queen. I should have known.
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>>17095039
Yeah be a man. America right? Everyone in this country plays around with race cause its part of our culture. Why don't you shoot something back at them and make some new friends - it could change your perspective on work.
>>17095041
>his opinion is different than mine ao he is wrong
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>>17094961
then stop being asian. Problem solved.
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>>17095068
Shut the fuck up amerifat.
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>>17094961
Lol my friends and I do that all the time. We're a fucking 90s crayon box of ethnicities and we all give each other shit.

But yeah if it bothers you just tell them. If you want to be a passive aggressive bitch and want to aboid confrontation go to hr.
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>>17095062
Not quite. The scholarship just came with signing the contract like it would have at McDonalds. I don't even use the VA I use blue cross.
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>>17095073
Which part of Europe you from? The part whose ass we kick or the part whose ass we saved?
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>>17095039
The company has a code of conduct, and white collar adults in general have norms of behavior to keep people focused on work (and making them money). Violating the norms is distracting to everyone and hurts the bottom line. Do yourself and the company a favor by verifying, collecting evidence, and getting rid of them.
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>>17095077
Whatever you say bud. Army shits aren't the same as coworkers. In the real world people are obligated to treat coworkers with respect.
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>>17095004
just reply

>I fuck your mother
and if they protest then say
>whats the problem, i like to fuck. Listen you have pressure and I have pressure. We deal with it in different ways. I like to fuck.
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>>17095081
>best military
>can't beat farmers from third world shitholes
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>>17095032

I am 100% positive I don't imagine it. It has basically become a joke of the day formula for all of them. I wait for it to happen each day, the moment when one of them takes their turn to mention something "asian" + "small" "tiny" "useless" "scrawny" whatever.

When it comes to my actual penis size, the honest answer is I'm definitely nowhere close to a porn star, but I have enough to do the job. But I do get bothered by others constantly assuming that i'm tiny. It's one of those things that bugs me because it's already a struggle for me to approach girls and date on weekends, but for a racist rumors like how every single asian guy on the planet can't please a woman, makes me feel like after a while, people believe all of it and don't give me a chance. Something about hearing that shit daily, starts to sink into my mind that whenever a girl rejects me, it's probably because I'm asian and she thinks I have a small penis. This is probably my own issues, but even though they are dumb jokes, they start to follow you in your mind, I constantly have to remind myself that everyone is just making jokes to sorta prop myself back up. I imagine someone with a lower self esteem than mine would just start to believe that shit after a while and feel quite worthless.
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>>17095087
>best military
>have pussy boy civilians who don't want war
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>>17094961
My first question is why does it hurt you? I'm curious as to why you care about what other people think. 7 billion humans on this planet, and most of them are autists.
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>>17095088
Read >>17095085
These are just chinese swear words

say
>Fuck you you, i fuck your mom
then say you want to shake their hand to have it dealt.
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>>17095084
Hey I work a job too. My home town is like 80% black and im the one white boy who cant jump and has a baby dick allegedly. The second assumtion was overturned but im still working on the first. Me and like 8 other guys play at the park every friday too.
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>>17094961
>I get bullied everyday for being an asian dude.
Who cares kek
Stay inside a little bit more so you don't stand out that much

Btw you are secretly master race especially if you are a Jap

Now get your shit together and join whitie in the fight against niggers.
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>>17095004
>>Oh my! Love eating chinese food, I wonder why that restaurant is called PeiWei *looks at me* or was it PEEWEE?
>>Wouldn't it be awesome to visit the LITTLE asian countries?
>>You see walking dead last night? Haha the asian dude had the tiny little pistol! Was shooting blanks dude. Everyone had a shotgun but him.

Topkek sounds like they are just kidding around
I mean you said they are white and Hispanic right? They can't be that racist at least not to Asians Whites/Hispanics/Asians are very similar as long as they are not to dark desu senpai it's niggers that the real literal shit in society.

Are you really brown or ugly or something?
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>>17095006
Holy fuck
>DAMAGE CONTROL
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>>17095100

I know I shouldn't care what others think, but I guess I feel sort of scared about my future. I haven't met a girlfriend, so I start to get pissed if people think things that lower my chances of getting one. I bet if I already had a girlfriend or was living a married life, none of this would matter anymore.

Thanks for helping me dig deeper into what was really bugging me.
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>>17095147
Well I'd suggest not going out of your way to get a girlfriend. If you are desperate you might look over issues with the other person.

And as you grow up you'll see how pointless all that shit is. I'm assuming you're young so that is understandable why you feel that way. I don't even remember anyone from highschool. Bullies generally aren't treated well in the real world.
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>>17095137

Nah, I'm not ugly or brown (although I don't mind tan skin, it looks pretty cool on people)

I'm actually kinda aware that I'm a handsome asian guy, I might be considered a bit chubby but not obese. I have a good looking face to fall back on though.
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>>17095165

Thanks for that advice anon. I'm holding off on the whole girlfriend thing for now. With these issues still here, I'm trying to learn to be happy with myself first. Whenever I have free time though, I start to fantasize about some future happy married life though. It happens very often.
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>>17094961
>>17095004
What country is this, where exactly, and what job are we talking about?
American here, I grew up around asians, indians, eastern europeans and other immigrants since I went to top schools and took top classes. My father's an engineer and half his coworkers have been asian at all of his jobs, many 2nd and 3rd generation but some 1st-gen who are barely fluent in english.

And in general, everyone has to deal with some racism. If you're the irritable type, it can help to blow off some steam by replying every once in a while. Eg my dad still has an accent (eastern european), since he's the introverted type who doesn't talk to anyone and too proud to change. When people ask him where he's from he sometimes gets pissed off and says something like "X-Levy-69, in the Andromeda galaxy. I've been sent here to observe you. Thank your mother for me by the way, she's provided us with much data on your species." Or just a gruff "From here."

>>17095088
>racist rumors like how every single asian guy on the planet can't please a woman
Yep, this is the general impression, pic related.
It's statistically accurate for black, white, and latina girls, but not for sexual reasons. Asian guys are more likely to be nerds, and thus more likely to be unable to please them in other ways (they like to party and get loud, drunk and wild).
On the bright side, asian girls still like you (look at that +24%). I'm a white guy and afaik only asian guys/girls have ever been interested in me, i've just accepted it.
For what it's worth, in this case:
>it could be worse, you could be a nigger
is actually true.
Good luck.
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>>17095168
Do you look like those Kpop guys?

>I might be considered a bit chubby but not obese

Just start lifting then bro most races besides blacks can help bring up their outof/10 by working out
You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of M8
Not brown
Not Black
You're fine.
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>>17095184
I got it anon
Step 1. Stop being a bitch
Step 2. Find a bitch not at work
Step 3. Ejeculate in said bitch
Step 4. Leave child at fire department or any select safe haven for infants across the U.S.
Step 5. Pray to Guan Yu he doesn't grow up like his real dad
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>>17095184
Welcome. And if its at work I guess it depends on how your work would react to how you deal with it. In the navy you could deal with assholes people in pretty much anyway you wanted as long as you didn't cause like a hospitalization.
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Get surgery to fix your chinkface
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>>17095192

Your dad sounds like a badass.

Well, guess I'm still lucky since I've never really had a huge desire to date outside of my race. I'm simple and traditional I guess. Still, something about that perception of all asian males being lumped together as so undesirable just makes me feel kinda sad. Guess, I'll just accept it.
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>>17095193

I look kinda like the guy you posted except my nose is a bit wider, I have a little chubby belly, and I guess when I'm feeling comfortable I dress like those anime nerds with the graphic tees but for work, I usually dress in collared shirts and stuff. Thanks for inspiring me anon. I'll have to step it up and work out.
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>>17095203
>"Uhh...what did you juth say?"
>five other seamen overhear the distraut squeal of their fellow sailor
>"Mmm fuckin wit my boi bring that shit here"
>penises unzip in en masse
>the asshole rises to get away but comes down in a loud clap
>he hears a mighty roar from the faggot
>"I have you now you shit lick time to floss those hole with my stick"
>suddenly the asshole freezes and spasms
>it is already around a dick and slipping out
>the asshole prolapses and once back inside the each seamen can take his turn

Such is life in the navy
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>>17095245
>Thanks for inspiring me anon. I'll have to step it up and work out.

Np

>except my nose is a bit wider,
Yeah Asians have that trait
At least it is not nigger tier though
>pic

Ehh what are you going to do about it man? No /sense in stressing about it

I wish I had an Kpop friend desu, we could kill niggers during sundown making the world a better place.... the dream.....

Good luck anon.
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>>17095208

I personally enjoy my chinkface. I just feel sad that the world around me looks down on it. Oh well.
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What's up with all the black people hate in here
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>>17095265

Is being glad we are not niggers how we all make ourselves feel better?
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>>17095265
If you haven't noticed everyone hates everyone on the internet.
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>>17095281
That's not true
I like you
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>>17095281
>>17095282
Now kiss

>>17095265
Everyone hates niggers kek
They just don't say anything because you can fuck up your life like what happened to FUCKING NOBEL PRIZE WINNERS

This is why we need Donald Trump
Unite America
As in Unite Whites/ paler Asians/and whiter Hispanics against the nigger hoards.
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>>17095291
Hispanics? Whatever happened to that wall we were going to build?
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>>17095299
>Whiter Hispanics
>Mexico

Pick one.
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>>17095291
>Everyone hates niggers kek

I don't
I don't know any blacks worth hating

But then again I don't hate many people
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What you should've done the first time this happened was "Fuck you dude" (in a light-hearted way) and changed the subject. Now you're the punching bag.
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>>17095305
>Tomato
>Tomato
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>>17095306
>But then again I don't hate many people
Well.....why even bother posting?


>>17095313
Sure thing paco
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>>17095299
>>17095305

I'm okay with Mexicans. I like eating their food and you can find some cute THICK girls. You seen those brown thighs? I like having them around me even though none of them will ever fuck me.
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>>17095329
Why the fuck did you just call me paco?
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>>17095329
>Well.....why even bother posting?

You were wrong, I posted to point that out
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>>17095265
>What's up with all the black people hate in here
Oftentimes we just reflect society's expectations and amplify them, since we have to prepare ourselves and each other for the expectations of the outside world.
Pic related, so is the one from >>17095192

Though i'm sure some of us actually hate niggers, of course.
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>Asian
>Has Hispanic coworkers
What the fuck? Go back to school and use your Asian genes to get a high paying STEM degree so you don't have to work with retards.
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>>17095333
>You seen those brown thighs? I like having them around me even though none of them will ever fuck me.
Well at least you are white
In one two generations max they will come out B L E A C H E D

>some cute THICK girls
Not gonna lie pretty hot desu but too brown


>>17095334
Can't handle the fact Southern Hispanics are actually not 5 foot beaners
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>>17095358
>Can't handle the fact Southern Hispanics are actually not 5 foot beaners

They're still spics tho
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>>17095358
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>>17095377
That's such a small percentage of how mexican type females actually look like.
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>>17095366
>Pic related

>>17095377
ehh she seems like a manlet anyways
I prefer less moor blood desu.
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>>17095391
Oh, so you're Argentinian
That explains it
Kys
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>>17095401
>Oh, so you're Argentinian
Nope, but sure stay delusional faggot.
If Trump doesn't get elected Argentina will end up whiter than the USA
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