There's a guy I've known for about 8 years and we mostly hang out through another friend. We usually meet up at the bar and its more like a thing where I'll see you there if you go. Anyway, he offered to come over and hang out tonight and I don't really feel like it. Is it weird to be friends with someone but not want to hang out with them? How do you tell someone you don't really want to?
>>17087979
He's trying to be your friend. I had these situations when I had lots of friends. Some of the time it ended up awkward, a few times became close friends.
>How do you tell someone you don't really want to?
I'm doing so and so tonight. How about (set a date)?
>>17087990
>I'm doing so and so tonight. How about (set a date)?
But thats basically like lying which is pretty ball-less and womanly.
>>17087979
>How do you tell someone you don't really want to?
Sorry, I've already got plans with my hand.
Also, it's really imposing for him to be inviting himself over to your house if you aren't close and it's not a common thing already
>>17088357
>Also, it's really imposing for him to be inviting himself over to your house if you aren't close and it's not a common thing already
You bring up a good point. How does that first step to hanging out get established if its always imposing?
>>17088420
He either invites you to his house or you invite him to yours, you don't invite yourself somewhere.
