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so this is the deal
I've been with this girl for little over a year and feel like it needs to end but I feel like shit thinking about it and don't know how or if I should
she my first gf but im not her first
I want to break up cause she just not sexual enough like we've had sex probably 2 in 2 months
I don't think I care about her I think I just care more about hurting her etc.
she super moody but funny the next second
like I feel like im a cunt if I break up with her and I don't know how to break up with her but know it has to end.
sorry for confused logic but my mind is all fucked up by this shit
but I feel so sad thinking about ending it, but just don't know how to break up with her
im i a dick for think this
>>17003089
you're sad because you're missing out on potential pussy, end it already
Have you tried talking to her about The sex thing? And if yes, what was her respons?
>>17003113
she says she doesn't know why she doesn't want more etc but she always says you cant change me etc
a few times it lead to a agurment etc but it just even when we do have sex it just straight to the point she's starting to get mad or something if I even try foreplay or ask for it
so I've pretty much stop asking or trying to have sex now
like I think it has to end but I feel sad to then I think no keep going then I feel even worst cause Im pretty sure it needs to end
but I just don't know how to
my mind it just all twisted im i meant to be sad about breaking it off or what?
I can't really answer you, OP. But I can say I'm in pretty much the same boat as you. My girlfriend is my first, but I am not her first. We have sex maybe once a week, I've tried talking to her about it. She doesn't think sex is important, and it wouldn't bother her at all if she never had sex again. I'm a sex everyday kind of guy and she thinks once or twice a week is a lot.
>>17003089
Grow some balls bro. You're not married. No kids. Do you even live together? If the answer to all of the above is no then just do it.
>>17003120
You're not obligated to be with her any longer than you want to. It may be shitty, but if you're having too hard of a time breaking the news in person it may be a good idea to tell her over text and then talk to her in person later on that day.