I need advice on a weird romance thing.
So I am in an open relationship with my boyfriend and since he wasn't around, I hooked up with some guy. Now, this guy is pretty good looking and I'm like, average. But this guy acts like I'm the second coming of Christ and loves my cock and all. I mean, this dude wants to marry me. He's sane, he just worships me. He asked me to go to Japan with him next month.
Now, I don't want to ever talk to him again. He doesn't have my real email but he has my phone number. How can I get rid of him? I kinda don't want to hurt his feelings but if need be I will. Can I just block him from texting/calling?
No, you need to be brutal and quick about it. Just say that the guy is cool but you feel you two are on different wave lengths. Wish him the best and tell him to stop calling you. Done.
Ask him if he gets it and then hang up.
Loves your cock? are you a faggot? lol
>>16994481
Yes
>>16994476
Ya pretty much this. Be firm and and fair, you don't have to be rude. But absolutely be firm otherwise he won't get the point.
>>16994491
>>16994476
Alright. I feel a little bad because this dude is more fucking in love with me than my boyfriend is and I've only met him once.
I don't ever hook up with a dude more than once in order to avoid any sort of romance forming. But jeez.
>>16994515
Being that attached after one hookup is a huge red flag, the guy is not in a mentally sound place, all the more reason you absolutely need to be firm.
I suggest in the future though, you explain straight up that you are in an open relationship with a partner, do not plan on cheating or leaving said partner, and you are only interested in sex.
I'm in an open relationship to and I make sure I always do this first before I even kiss someone. I also set clear boundaries if the person wants to hang around and have some more fun later down the road, and ask them for their boundaries too so I can avoid accidentally leading them on in anyway other than sex.
>>16994534
I'm going to do that in the future. I mean, he was acting like I was the hottest guy ever and I look kind of like an albino goblin.