I found a female friend of mine on tinder randomly (she broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago)
I like her, as in more than a friend, but I haven't found the time nor the energy to ask her out. (Plus I work with her and relationships with co-workers either get you heartbroken or fired) Still, I wouldn't mind smashing because she's a solid 9/10
So anyways without thinking I swiped right, and today at work she saw me and said "was that you on tinder that I saw?" And I sheepishly said yeah. She told me it wasn't a big deal and that she sees guys she knows all the time on tinder.
My concern now, is that she obviously didn't swipe right on me. I know this could mean a lot of things, but my first thought is she's not that into me (although she DOES talk to me quite a bit at work, idk if its flirting or not, I'm bad at telling)
What do I do, /adv/? I may just break my rule and date a co-worker, but I at least want to smash. And if there's one thing I know about girls, is that after breakups, they start to get "dick withdrawals" (every girl I've been close with has told me this) How do I approach this?
If she wanted to date you, or at least want to sleep with you, she would have swiped right.
>>16994032
See im the kinda person i would've asked her flat out why she didn't swipe me but I can tell you aren't so I've got no advice for you
>>16994049
You must be autistic to think asking that is a good idea
>>16994049
Actually I was thinking about doing just that next time I see her, in a couple of days (I only got to see her briefly today)
>>16994053
>>16994049
Actually bro it's kinda alpha.
>>16994059
"Why didn't you swipe right on me?"
"Uh, because I have no interest in you"
Yeah, super alpha
>>16994032
>What do I do, /adv/?
Seems like she's already made that decision. She talked about seeing you on Tinder, she didn't swipe right with you and brushed off the subject.
>My concern now, is that she obviously didn't swipe right on me. I know this could mean a lot of things
Or it could mean one thing. She isn't interested.
>I may just break my rule and date a co-worker,
You say this as though she's interested in dating you.
>And if there's one thing I know about girls, is that after breakups, they start to get "dick withdrawals"
The one thing you know about girls is wrong. Not a good start, anon.
Meh, just move on. (Actually don't listen to me, it seems I just want to make people do nothing, like me)
Go for it bro! I dunno, maybe ask her out after knowing her a little more?
>>16994063
He wouldn't be asking for advice since you know he got his answer. Plus he can cut contact with her when she denies him. It's a win win unless you're a beta bitch who is too scared to be a man.
>>16994063
But the alpha was because you didn't care for her rejection.
"I'm not really interested "
Aplha: "k"
>>16994100
Being alpha is not caring that she rejected you in the first place. Asking her afterwards why she did it isn't being alpha, that's called being desperate.
>>16994108
Yeah I know, she wasn't interested so you don't even ask. The end
