How do I permanently kill my sex-drive? I have always been disgusted and ashamed at myself for having sexual thoughts and urges. I've gone through months of NoFap but in the long run it does nothing to deal with the building up of frustration. If any of you guys know how to turn ones self asexual, please reply.
>>16993679
I'm also interested in this.
castration
then join a monastery of your choosing
When you get the urges say a prayer.
Engross yourself into your work or education. If you have no idle time, then you have no time to think about sex.
>>16993744
>>16993749
Non-religious so im afraid i cant do this. Castration seems a bit extreme, i don't like the pain but I am curious about this option. If it truly does kill a sex-drive then I am interested.
>>16993750
This may be a good option. Will it stop wet-dreams?
Sex is not a drive.
>>16993759
Dreams are tricky. Most of the time they are just jumbled pieces of things that you've thought, heard, or seen during your waking life.
So, my advice is to avoid things that are sexual. Do not visit the sexual parts of 4chan. Do not watch movies about couples inlove. Do not visit any place that you know could turn you on.
If you fill your mind with thoughts about your hobbies or politics or whatever, then those things will leak into your dreams, meaning there'd be no room for anything sexual.
This is my advice. It may not be bullet proof, but it does work to an extent.
>>16993679
>Sex is not a drive.
This is correct. It isn't a drive its a genetic imperative.
If you are disgusted in your own sexual identity you need to see a therapist. Being "asexual" isn't a thing because having no sex drive is technically a medical ailment.
Humans are supposed to have sex drive. If you have difficulty accepting that then you need professional help. Period.
>>16993795
If someone is otherwise physically healthy, and their sex drive (or lack of one) doesn't bother them, there is no problem. OP should see a therapist. But someone with a high sex drive or who is "asexual" isn't bothered by it, it's technically not a psychological issue.
>>16993781
Its good advice. It probably wont help in having me reach my end goal of becoming asexual, but it can definitely help reduce thoughts and urges. Thank you
>I have always been disgusted and ashamed at myself for having sexual thoughts and urges.
Sure does suck being a normal human being with normal thoughts and urges, eh?
>>16993759
castration just werks
no balls = no testosterone = no sex drive
take a lot of morphine and do the deed, anon.
as for the monastery, you don't have to be religious to join, you just have to be willing to meditate and live a life free of lust, greed, desire, and modern comforts/luxuries
really you should consider isolating yourself from society.
>>16993795
What is wrong with wanting to become asexual? I mean how is going to impact me negatively? Shouldn't I want to remove things about myself that make me unhappy?
>>16993822
Thanks, I will do some research into this, if its the only option that works i will do it
>really you should consider isolating yourself from society.
done, asides from 4chan
>I have always been disgusted and ashamed at myself for having sexual thoughts and urges
Holy fuck. That's like a dog feeling ashamed for pissing on a fire hydrant or shitting outside. Get over it, seriously.
So long as you know how to control yourself, have boundaries and respect for relationships and shit, and aren't an outrageous pervert trying to dick everything, you should be fine fagit.
It is natural for you to think about sex. Genders exist for a reason.
