So my gf is something of a shut-in and doesn't have many friends, but lately she's been getting on really well with one of her co-workers, a girl about our age (early 20s). Friday night my gf invited her new friend over to hang out while I was with the boys.
But when I got back and asked if they had a good time, my gf was really excited to reveal they mostly watched gay porn (man on man) on our TV. They're both ostensibly straight women with bfs. Is this some kind of red flag?
>>16991757
lol no not really at all. You watch lesbian porn don't you? Same deal.
Who the fuck does that? Thats weird, especially if they just met each other. Your gf sounds anti social but its good shes getting practice talking to people and interacting. I wouldnt break up with her or anything.
>>16991762
Not as a social activity with friends.
>>16991766
You should get out more. Yeah, it's not really the go to activity. Especially when hanging out with someone for the first time. But there is literally no harm in it at all. I've watched porn at parties. The kind with bat set ups and bad acting are great to watch for parties. Plus, I dunno what it is but girls are just more social with each other about that kind of stuff. Plus I think they can separate that sort of thing from actually being horny and wanting to fuck pretty easily.
>>16991762
Only to masturbate and never with friends. I don't watch porn for entertainment with other guys. I am bi but still, that's fucking gay.
>>16991774
>bat
*bad
Yeah, it's a major red flag. How does a shut-in watches porn with someone she met not too long ago and then she "excitedly" tells her boyfriend about it? Your girlfriend is autistic.
>>16991776
In my experience, girls do it pretty frequently.
Just sounds like she's somewhere on the autistic scale, not as a bad thing. Just the fact she'd boast that to you and not realize it's not really appropriate.
I wouldn't say this is a red flag. Years ago me and my internet buds would get together and watch horrible hentai and shit with no sexual connotation, just to laugh at it as a group. Sounds like they just wanted to watch some shit n have a giggle. If there was any sexual feelings ANYWHERE your gf sure as hell wouldn't of been boasting about their evening activities.
As a shut-in she was just riding this high from a good social hang out and didn't realize she shouldn't of brought it up. A social faux pas on her part.
>>16991774
>at a party
>choose to watch porn with a bunch of people
Literally the weirdest thing in the world. Not to say I dont know people like this, but most people I know consider it weird to watch porn with other people.
>>16991786
Okay, I don't know about you but I only go to parties with people I'm actually friends with.
>>16991774
>watching porn at parties
Jesus christ, you fucking degenerate scum, do us all a favor and kill yourselves.
>>16991792
Okay, I dont know about you but I dont watch fucking porn with my friends.
>>16991794
You're a fucking retard if you think there are any sexual feelings at all at those parties. Get out of your mom's basement.
Just to clarify, I don't really have a problem with it. I doubt they were getting sexy together or anything like that. I've just never even considered doing something like that so I can only wonder WHY.
Is this like talking to each other in a public bathroom, just something women do?
Are you all a bunch of motherfucking boring-ass prudes... some of the best parties I've been to had high quality HD porn streaming on big screens.
OP be happy your girlfriend has a new friend she is comfortable with. If she really has a lacking social life this should be a good thing for her.
I've watched porn with friends and with new people I've just met because its just fucking porn and that's all. What is your issue /adv/? Maybe its because you're a bunch of shut ins yourself. But you're on 4chan for god's sake we share porn with each other all the damn time.
>>16991798
see>>16991799
>>16991800
You know, you could always, I dunno, maybe ask her?
>>16991805
fucking this.... kind of
>>16991800
I feel it probably started with something really ridiculous, like lemon whores, that when the topic of bad porn comes up you gotta share it. It probably just snowballed from there.
>>16991805
Sounds like a gay party bro. Do you all circle jerk and watch a snuff film when the party starts to calm down?
What kind of porn is it? I could understand if they are fujoshit and watching yaoi and she just called it 'gay porn' for simplicity's sake. I know I'd be chuffed if I found a person in real life into BL as well and wouldn't mind watching it together. However if it's 3dpd that's a bit weird but I'm also a lonely autismo female so please hook me up with these gals OP
>>16991823
No you just have a normal party and some people watch the porn they don't take their fucking pants off it just adds flavor to the party.
I can't believe there are actually this many prude losers on /adv/. Like, 4chan of all places being shocked that people watch porn like its a normal thing because it fucking is.
>>16991832
>porn adds flavor to the party
Go to better parties. Ive been to many and Ive never seen a "porn room". Sounds like a ghetto trash party to be honest.
>>16991799
>sexual feelings
What the fuck are you even talking about?
>>16991805
Ok faggot, then tell me this, why do you watch porn at parties? What is the reason you retarded teenagers chose to watch some people fucking instead of talking, dancing, playing games or whatever other way you could find to actually SOCIALIZE at a party?
It's not about being prude, it's simply the fact that you don't know how to interact with other people anymore. It boggles my mind how you think watching porn is an activity to be done at a party.
>>16991855
Do you seriously think that everyone just stares at the screen, not uttering a single word to eachother, wishing they could rub their boners?
>sexual feelings
AROUSAL ANON, AROUSAL AND BONERS AND WET VAGINAS
These are the things that are largely absent at these parties.
It's seriously comparable to having a game of football on at a party. But for people who fucking hate sports.
Quit being a goddamn sperg.
>>16991866
>these things are largely absent at these parties
Again, go to better parties. You shouldnt even need porn its weird. Go socialize with people.
>>16991866
>It's seriously comparable to having a game of football on at a party. But for people who fucking hate sports.
I don't like sports either but please don't lump me in with you.
>>16991842
Lol the last one I went to was all white people and one asian guy. All the girls were wearing lingerie. It was awesome. And the porn wasn't some amateur shit from hamster. It was real deal HQ porn, the kind you pay a lot for. It was interesting. I only watched a little bit of it but it was basically background noise while we all got smashed and danced. Sorry you don't like fun.
>>16991870
You are completely misreading what I'm saying.
People don't walk around a party with a boner. That's saved for the back rooms if it's that kind of party. You don't socialize with your dick hanging out. Fucking reading comprehension, goddamn.
>>16991872
How is that lumping you in wi- you know what. Never mind.
You guys are fucking idiots. It's not like everybody is texting each other going "Yo when's the porn party, I can't wait to jack off in a corner."
You are the faggots who need to learn how to socialize and not demonize sex so much.
>>16991855
>why do you watch porn at parties?
Because when its good porn it is a form of art and can be intersting to watch. Not sure how going to parties and being surrounded by girls in their underwear makes me an antisocial faggot, I think it just makes you jealous that you party with lames.
The porn is there literally just to set the mood. We still do all those things you mentioned and more.
>>16991886
You are the faggot who needs to learn to socialize and not sexualize everything.
>>16991897
Okay, you don't know how to read. Or maybe you're fucking autistic. I dunno. Either way you keep bumping a dead thread to argue with two people who are clearly having more fun in life than you, so take solace in that, you daft motherfucker.
>>16991897
Lmao at this guy... go back to church where they esteem your virginity.
>>16991866
You didn't answer the question.
You go to parties to socialize. You watch porn to get aroused.
So WHY do you watch porn at parties? What is the reason you chose to have people fucking and moaning as background noise at a party that doesn't even involve arousal, boners and wet vaginas? It would be like listening to loud music when trying to meditate. I'd understand why you would watch porn at a party where your sole purpose is to get some, not that that wouldn't be retarded as well, but you're doing makes no fucking sense.
How the hell did you people decide that the proper thing to watch at a party where you're only trying to mingle and have fun in a non-sexual way is porn?
Actually I'll tell you how, it's simply because you're a bunch of unimaginative, degenerate fucks who don't understand anything about sexuality or life as a whole and who have no idea how to properly interact with each other.
>>16991914
I wasn't that anon. Do you still not fucking get that you are talking to two different people?
I watch porn ALONE to get aroused and get off. I watch porn at parties for a laugh or to socialize about the porn. It's fun. I don't do it at every fucking party I go to like you seem to keep implying. I've done it like a few times.
>How the hell did you people decide that the proper thing to watch at a party where you're only trying to mingle and have fun in a non-sexual way is porn?
Because I'm not autistic and can separate reality from fiction. When watching a horror movie with friends I don't get super invested and scared because I'm with friends and it's just a movie on a screen.
You're a goddamn sperg, jesus.
>>16991914
>You watch porn to get aroused.
This is why you don't understand. Because your narrow mind believes this. You've obviously never watched porn with someone else for fun or entertainment, do you even talk about chicks with your bros or do you just talk bout you Magic card strategies? Do you feel like a faggot when someone talks about a sexual experience within earshot of you? You sound like the one with the problem and only you will suffer for it while the rest of us have fun, party, dance and get laid.
>>16991927
>>16991930
So you watch porn at parties to laugh and socialize about it. You see dick in vagina and you laugh. And then you talk about it. That's what you find funny or interesting and that's what you and your friends talk about. And people who don't talk about porn don't do it because they're spergs who hate fun and sex.
Ok, I got it now. Forget I said anything.
>>16991964
Good. Glad we're on the same page.
>>16991757
Doesn't sound like it.
I used to watch and read yaoi with my last best friend.
>>16991883
>And the porn wasn't some amateur shit from hamster. It was real deal HQ porn, the kind you pay a lot for.
haha holy fuck I never thought I'd see the day when someone tried to brag about the high quality and rareness of their porn, kek, this is new levels of pathetic
>It was real deal HQ porn, the kind you pay a lot for.
looool
>itt teenagers going to edgy teenager parties
It sounds kind of retarded if nobody is getting arrosed.
I mean what's next going to parties and watching high quality videos of people drinking but not drinking yourself, just dancing around to a video of other people drinking?
OH MAN
femanon here, this is normal for me and my friends because we just think most porn is hilarious?
I live with my boyfriend, he's the only guy I've slept with but I'm still really open to my friends about my sex life with him
and actually, the last few times I've had friends over we've all watched badly dubbed hentai and went around redtube.
What makes you think it would be a red flag?
>>16992243
>tfw no homegirls to share porn with
This is what my life is missing. Didn't realize until this thread.
>>16992256
It's great! To be fair though my boyfriend knows and is friends with all of my friends which might be why it's not weird for him? Then again his friends just text him random funny porn too sometimes.
Having a couple of drinks with these funny porn nights is one of the better things about being in my twenties.
>>16992283
Closest thing to this I have experienced is being with a bunch of guys, including my boyfriend, who were trying to find the most disgusting porn they possibly could. It was fun and definitely disturbing (we watched people eat breakfast cereal out of a girl's stretched asshole, and a girl using a vaporizor on her pussy) but my bf didn't have a problem with me being there.
>>16992314
I'm laughing cause I just saw that cereal one two nights ago with my buds! Glad you fun!
>>16992314
That's some great advice there you fucking degenerate
I should apply to be a janitor to remove slutblogposting
>>16992390
Man I knew a dude was gonna come along and be bitter about this whole conversation
The point is it's more common than OP thinks
>>16992402
Contrary to popular belief, this is an advice board, not a conversation board for you to blog about your stupid porn sharing habits with your simpleton friends
Congratulations on watching someone eat cereal out of another's asshole, you sound like a keeper
This board is actually worse than reddit now
>>16992411
>you sound like a keeper
My boyfriend seems to think so. And he treats me like a princess. I think he likes that I'm fun and relaxed about that stuff and we can laugh together while tripfags crie about how they will never know that level of happiness and freedom.
>>16992466
Why would I want a whore that watches people eat food from each other's assholes?
>>16991757
OP, are you japanese? Or is your girlfriend a weeb?
If not, are you sure she wasn't just joking?
Finally, don't read too much into it even if serious, most of us have watched boku no pico with a bunch of other dudes and it's no cause for alarm.
Also for other anons in this thread: this is actually a thing. The japanese are responsible, as usual. Pic related.
And see >>16991980.
>>16992488
because a hopeless weirdo like yourself will take anything he can get. please leave, and never return
>>16992555
Uh what? That doesn't even make sense. Women are so fucking stupid. As expected from a human being that enjoys watching other people eat shit.
