>meet qt girl
>we hit it off
>she's still with her high school boyfriend
>oh well
>become friends
>time passes
>she just broke up with him
>says she was tired of balancing a relationship with everything else in her life
>says she just wants to have fun with her friends and isn't interested in a relationship right now
What do I do? How long do I wait to say something? It's like I'm aiming for a bull's eye with my eyes closed.
Just offer her money for sex, she'll only be mad if you low ball it
>>16989782
great post
Be her friend, don't come on to her... like at all. Keep it casual.
>>16989776
>falling for the "I was pushed to the limit by my ex" meme
20 dollars says OP will come back in 3 months with either 2 scenarios
>We've been talking and hanging out but she doesn't wanna date me...
or
>She started dating me but a new guy came into the picture and she insists he is just a friend
>>16990382
>long distance relationship
>ex was a loser who graduated but never went to college and just stayed in their hometown doing nothing
>>16990486
>If I pretend all of these red flags don't exist maybe they will go away
You're believeing her story 100%. I'm telling you anon, girls like that are trouble. If her reason was straight up the truth then it wouldn't be an issue but a girl who loves to turn things around to make herself a victim is always bad news for long term relationships. What do you think your 'tipping issue' will be with her?
>>16990506
How fucking paranoid are you? What "red flags"? The end of ONE relationship? She isn't making herself a victim, she never whined or complained about it.
LDRs never work and should be summarily ended.
>>16989776
LOLLLLLLL yeah u getting some
