Banned from fit for posting this.
How do I get rid of a cuckolding/femdom/humiliation fetish?
I don't want to be this way. Why does this stuff turn me on? Is it because I feel inadequate?
Has any successfully gotten rid of this fetish?
why? just become a pimp and make dosh off your bitches
>>16973950
why would you post this in /fit/?
>>16973950
I can't tell if you're memeing but if your not I'll try to help.
Do you have problems with self hatred?
Where you abused as a kid?
Do you also get satisfaction from physical pain?
Is your fetish racial in nature (only like to watch Mexican or black guys etc)
Are you in a relationship where you are cuckolded currently?
>>16973950
i have a humiliation fetish to, but mine is being used by multiple older grosser guys.
the best advice i find is to cut out porn., you can try and restrict your pron to more healthy porn but chances are you will not stick with that. so instead you gotta cut it all out and focus on a normal sex life.
>>16973987
Not meming, totally serious.
Self hatred, i don't know. I have a lot of good friends, am sociable, so I don't hate myself I guess. I do hate that I am addicted to weird porn.
I was never abused physically or sexually as a child.
I feel no satisfaction from physical pain.
My fetish not racial by nature, I don;t care what race they are. The men or the women.
I am not in a relationship, I was in a relationship where I was cheated on, but I liked cuckold porn before I met her, and even used to fantasize about her fucking another guy AS i was fucking her.
>>16973989
Its a shitty cycle though, don't get laid because I feel inadequate, jack off to cuckold porn, feel more inadequate.
>>16973999
do you really feel inadequate or do you want to feel inadequate? big difference.
>dont get laid because i feel inadequate
so what yo uare saiyngi s you ARE adequate, but you dont feel it and thats why.
>>16974006
I don;t want to feel inadequate, I want to get my shit together and be respected by men and liked by women.
>>16973983
i feel that they are more alligned with the self improvement and masculine nature which I strive to have.
>>16973950
Find out where your fetish stems from. Probably you have very low self esteem. Find out why.
Learn to psychology, read a lot about it.
And don't hate yourself for who you are.
>>16974018
but are you inadequate? that was my question.
>>16974026
How do I even begin to try and find out where my fetish stems from?
>>16974025
/fit/ is like 70 percent homosexual
>>16974036
The low self esteem was a hint. Abuse can be not only physically. Did your mother never acknowledge and praise you? Do you have siblings she showed love to but left you out? Are you single child/only brothers and she so much whished to have girls instead and let you know about it?
Children need a lot of love, effort and nurturing to develop to healthy adults.....
>implying a fetish is something you can choose
Sexuality - the kind of things you are attracted to, is not a conscious choice, in my opinion. It's like taste: I can't rationally explain why I like spaghetti so much, but dislike raw fish. Yet they are strong preferences I have formed in my mind, of course influenced by previous experiences, but not a conscious choice.
Why are we attracted to certain body types, why are some people gay? I don't think that's something you can choose.
>>16974026
>tfw you fap to cuckold porn but you're the bull
>>16974073
Everything can be explained.
Your early childhood and teen years mold you to who you are. If something goes wrong you turn out very fucked up. This can mean anger issues, anxiety and depression issues or sexual fetishes. Everyone unconciously copes their own way.
>>16974065
Nah, my mother, if anything, was overly caring of me. Always telling me she loved me, and I loved her. She went through depression though.
My dad has always been proud of me, even when I fuck up, he say's "I'm proud no matter what you do son."
My parents both love me.
>>16974098
Yes, but the question is, if it can be changed?
My fetish is girls who desperately have to pee. It gave me a weird feeling, even as a child, even before I became sexually mature I had a weird fascination for it.
The best thing to do if somebody is ashamed of his fetish, is to ignore it, and don't act on it I guess.
>>16974073
Also gay people are hardwired, there's nothing to choose for them the same as hetero people. I mean 100% gay people who can't get it up for the opposite sex, not the bi curious in between faggots.
>>16974127
muh spectrum.
>>16974115
It can be changed. After finding out what the issue was with me having a rape fetish, I got rid of it.
I remembered I was molested and forced me do sexual acts as a kid by same aged to 6 years older kids. I started cope with it by trying to remember and not pushing the memories away. Was the worst time of my life but I got used to it, could accept it's not my fault, it's in the past and I'm not that weak little kid anymore, I don't need to feel fear and shame anymore.
As soon as I was fixed I didn't crave rape porn anymore. If I stumble upon rape scenes in mainstream films, I'd be lying if I said it didn't kinda turn me on. But now it terrifys me and I don't actively crave for porn of it anymore.
>>16974172
How would I go about doing the same for this cuckold porn then?
>>16974115
But that's not a very destructive fetish. Cuckolding fucks your mind up.
