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2016-03-25 20:23:26 Post No. 16957147
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2016-03-25 20:23:26
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There's this girl. She had a long relationship with a "friend" but they had a bad breakup after she found he was texting other girls. Then another "friend" professed his love to her, she rejected him (he is very overweight). Then she had a fling thing with another of my friends (I actually like this guy), he rejected her. I criticized him for this but I later asked her out on a date. She let me down nicely telling me something along the lines of if all the previous stuff with my friends hadn't happened, she probably would have said yes.
Months (?) later I still like her. I'm drawn to being around her but try to avoid eye contact when I am with her as it feels too painful. She mocks my social skills and calls me weird which has recently got on my nerves, I try very hard socially (I'm an intp she is enfp). The other night during a gathering she rubs up next to me and starts having banter with me. Again mocking my social skills, then she calls me "condom" (my name is Dominic). I snap a little and call her tills cant pay the bills (her name is matillda and she doesn't have the best plan for the future and isn't great with money). Anyway her behavior confuses me, she seems to want to be friends with me, to again have the deep conversations that we used to have, and seems very proud of the fact I asked her out. I think she knows I'm angry she rejected me.
Is there any chance she would be interested in me but suppressing it? If not how do I get over her, she hangs out with my friends. Should I become friends with her (to be stuck in the infamous "friend zone") or ignore her. I feel as though she likes me but this may just be me reading into her actions too optimistically.
idk