Stop being so critical of self?
- Home
- Board: /adv/ - Advice
- Reading: Stop being so critical of self?
I was talking to this girl and I took her on a date, and sometime last week she didn't reply to one of my messages and it wrecked me. I stopped messaging her entirely, figured she was sick of me and / or bored of me and that I wasn't worth the time anyway. My friends all said I was doing good I just needed to be more forward about it, but I have very little self esteem and she's a 10/10 gorgeous, interesting girl that has no reason to talk to a loser like me. How do I stop thinking like this? It's been a little over a week since we talked and I figure there's no way she has any interest in me or she'd go out of her way to talk to me. But, she is almost always one of the first 3 people to view my snapchat stories no matter what time I post it.
Wat do? How do I lose this low self esteem and feel confident enough to confront her about my ACTUAL feelings?
Thnx
>>16955653
theres some bullshit about girls not texting you first and also not texting too much because they dont want to seem easy you basically have to be relentless
just convince yourself that she wants you and you have to push for it, thats the only way you dont die alone
Read "Feeling Good" by Dr. David Burns. Study it and follow the processes outlined. Really changed my life.
