I'm signed up to OkCupid, POF, and I have a Tinder. I
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I'm signed up to OkCupid, POF, and I have a Tinder.
I get plenty of enjoyment swiping through all of the people, but I never end up messaging, so it's kind of a waste. I just never feel like putting in the effort, but I don't know why. I tried deleting all of them, but a few days later, I was back at it. What I don't want to do is look like some weirdo that just lurks on these sites and does nothing. Just... starting some kind of conversation and trying to get a girl's attention seems like such a pain in the ass.
How do I get the motivation to start messaging, or just delete them and keep them deleted?
i just masturbate desu. much easier and less risk.
You have to actually want the girl/a girl. The motivation will come naturally. Perhaps you're a faggot?
>>16955130
men are talking, princess, fuck off to facebook with your 10000+ pending messages.
>>16955130
Nope, not a faggot. I met my last girlfriend on OkCupid, maybe that's why I'm turned off by the messaging process, it just seems like repeating something I've already done or whatever.
I just don't meet many girls in my day to day life, so that's frustrating. I want to get back in the game.