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2016-03-22 22:55:52
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We've been doing long distance the last six months. I have traveled to see her about every two weeks, and so far she's only been home for christmas. It's fine, I have a part-time job, she doesn't (well not until last week) and she always appreciates that I come and visit.
Now she is coming home and bringing with her two of her friends from where she studies, and said we wont get much alone time, which is fine. I figured we'd all hang out together. We've talked about going to her fathers cabin all of us, but I didn't get the week off.
And now she's decided to go to her dads cabin without me, and without asking if I was okay with it. I got upset even if it was only for three nights. And said I would have liked it if she had asked me first.
She got defensive and said I was being selfish, that it wasn't my place to decide what she and her friends were going to do, after all she had to make her friends the priority. She's gonna hang back a week after her friends leave to stay with me, and then I am "all hers".
I don't know why but it hurts my feelings that she says she can't prioritize me, that I don't have a say. I feel like I have given so much, yet and get very little back. And now I'm considering if this is a relationship that I want to be in.
She doesn't really want to stay at her mom's place, which is the other option, because they don't get along that well, and the relationship is quite strained. But that doesn't change anything for me. We haven't seen each other for four weeks because my lack of funds.
Am I overreacting?