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Relationship advice, help!
2016-03-21 16:59:59 Post No. 16942272
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Relationship advice, help!
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2016-03-21 16:59:59
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So, my current gf confessed me last night she has been with a black guy before me. A black guy i also happen to know, he works as a pilot (so not exactly a trashy hood rat), 5 years older than she is, bald and a big guy. Can't believe i even met that guy during a masked party one month ago, and he seemed so cool and friendly, like he totally didn't bang my girlfriend just 6 months before
I mean, i know it shouldn't be a problem and whatnot, but i just can't wrap my mind about it, and i can't get why she hid such a thing to me. Ofc, we had a big argument about it, things got heated fast, told her to get out of my house, she stormed out and now we are in this sort of "not together" limbo. For now. No phone calls from her so far, no messages, nothing. Just her bald cousin calling me more or less one hr ago to tell me that i am a "Little racist white guy" and yelling various obscenities regarding penis size. I hung up on him after less than 15 seconds btw. I am literally paralyzed, i don't wanna lose her, but now it's obvious we have a trust issue. The whole thing is extremely painful for me since i always expect a lot of loyalty from my relationships.
>Tl;dr: Current gf dated a black guy before me, she told me about all of her exes but not him. I love her so much but i don't know if i can keep her after what she has done. Wat do?