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2016-03-20 21:21:51 Post No. 16939358
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2016-03-20 21:21:51
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I'll begin with some background. I am young, attractive, tall, confident, and reasonably intelligent. I've been scouted for modeling as well has having graduated university three years early. I do not wish to brag, it is simply relevant information for my query. I do not have any particular difficulty getting dates with girls. I've never felt as if a girl was 'out of my league.' I'm very grateful for this advantage.
Of course, I was once very much reclusive and introverted. Not so much lonely, as my obsessions generally occupied me. I am generally skeptical of other people and their conventions. I've been on many dates, but never for more than a week or so, and of course have never had sex. I don't have a tremendous sex drive, I masturbate maybe once or twice a month. It's not a huge concern of mine nor something I worry about.
The greatest concern which holds me back is that of innocence. Not so much mine for my sake, but for a potential girlfriend. As I feel I've seen both 'sides' if you will, I generally value loyalty over hedonism.
It doesn't matter a huge amount to me, for my own individual sake, if I have sex or not. What I wish to make sure I do not violate is the potential trust of a girl in the future. If she is a virgin who was waiting for a marriage or lifetime relationship, should I be able to honestly show that I feel and felt the same?
I've recently been invited to a threesome with two beautiful women. It would be one hell of a story for a 'first time,' and it's honestly quite tempting. This isn't a conventional 'how can I' lose my virginity thread, but rather should I? In the future I could just as well find a virgin who wants a long term relationship and truly value that, but would my own behavior showing otherwise risk that relationship with her? It's only hypothetical, and indeed rather subjective to the girl, but if anyone can provide some insight into their general experiences and opinions on this I would appreciate it.