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Just a quick story. Need opinions.
Gf turned wife of 10 years has a drinking problem she behaves way too inappropriate and doesn't remember anything the next day. She's even gotten so drunk she's kissed other guys in front of me. Even caused me to fist fight other people. She doesn't remember and nothing I say can fix her.
I stayed with her cuz I was taken care of, living for free with her parents w/ her. But is it worth knowing my gir is a drunken slut? I thought it was. I'm asking myself, where is rock bottom, then do I draw the line, what needs to happen before I leave? Do I need to see her fucking cheat?
She won't change, she would have if she wanted to.
Im leaving her, I don't trust her at all. I can't believe she won't do it again. Wish me luck on my new life. Shit won't be ez. But it's better then living with this
Bump for your thoughts
It sounds like you came to the conclusion you needed to as you were writing this. Though to be perfectly frank, I'd have pushed her towards rehab.
You're only with her so she can take care of you? Do you even care about her at all?
>>16938110
Thank you for your input
>>16938113
Yes I do, it came off bad when I wrote it. That's not what I meant sry
>>16938118
She's your wife, you married her for better or for worst, and now is her worst. Talk to her about how her drinking makes you feel and about how you don't like how she acts when intoxicated. Personally, I would try to get her help and use that as an ultimatum: get help and fix this or I'm leaving. If she loves you and values the relationship she will try to better herself, and if not then its time to move on.
>>16938142
Thank u for this. Now that I'm more calm I think I'll talk to her about it