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Hey /adv/ so I told my friend a while back how I felt about her and she said she only saw me as a friend, but 2 days later she decided she wanted to give it a shot. It's been 3 weeks now and she says she still sees me as a friend, while I'm over here basically falling in love. We've been talking A LOT every day, I've learned that in all her past relationships every guy has basically fucked her over for another girl. I also learned that she doesn't like yelling, and this is because of her parents, when they went through their divorce she saw them yelling at each other a lot so I think it scared her. She says she WANTS to be in a relationship with me but for some reason she can't see herself in one. could her past experiences With relationships have configured her mind into thinking all relationships are full of negativity? Or is just not meant to be?
Also another important part, she told me that since every other guy has fucked up and started talking to other girls, she is waiting for me to do the same.... How is she supposed to get feelings for me when just just waiting for me to fuck up?
Also another important part, she told me that since every other guy has fucked up and started talking to other girls, she is waiting for me to do the same.... How is she supposed to get feelings for me when just just waiting for me to fuck up? I really like this girl, do you think it's worth the work/emotional stress?
Didn't mean to post that twice, I thought the first one didn't go though
Sad bump
Bump...
No one has any input?
>>16934445
Girls say all sorts of shit and most of it is gibberish, if she tells her best friend you're her boyfriend then you are. Ask her best friend.
>>16934567
He best friend knows that we're not dating... So that wouldn't do any good. Thanks though
>>16934445
Maybe it is not meant to be. She clearly has some hang ups that won't resolve itself over night. Try and make it work by assuaging her fears. That said, maybe it won't work. Do your best. What do you think you should be doing?
>>16934583
I want to be with her, I just don't like that I might just be digging an emotional hole for myself
>>16934583
I think I'm going to try my best to help her get over the past. If it doesn't work out in a month or two it's not meant to be.
