My life is in a dump, I´ve been stressed, partially depressed, with horrible load of problems on my back.
My problem is I let too many people (through the time) know I have problems, but I REALLY don´t want them to see me that way at all. It makes me uncomfortable when they see me that way. I can somehow deal with my problems, they can´t help anyway (aside from listening to me ramble), and they have their own problems too.
So my question is: how do you handle/go about showing most of the world the OK/happy/fine side of you even though it´s too much often? (And I´m talking about all social interactions)
Seriously, this is not about being secretly EMO, it´s about appearing to be okay so I would feel more okay myself..
>>16934480
>implying
a good friend doesn't want to see you down, sorry you don't have any. but keeping busy is the best way to fake being ok. don't give yourself time to dwell. forget about the past and always be doing something.
but dealing with your problems will actually make them go away. you gotta put in work and address the issues with yourself breh
I'll go ahead and fall for the bait, what's the problem, anon?
Complain on 4chan so I don't have to complain anywhere else.
>>16934548
They are okay with it, I just don´t like to be seen as being in a dump too much. I can share, but if I share often or a lot, it gets too much too fast.
There are too many problems to list, some of which can´t be resolved easily or fast, it´s a long run, which drains energy and attittude (health+studying+family+finances+work issues).
I just don´t want to look around myself (or back) again just to find out everyone is seeing me as a person with problems, who is always in stress/negative.
>>16934555
Seems like a valid way when I´m home ^_^ I´m just not sure about the rest of the time..
