i dont know how to be gay.
i realised I was a homo about 6-7 months ago, but I cannot name a single gay thing I have ever done. I havent asked anyone out, kissed anyone, even complimented a guy ever. I came out to some close friends last month, but I otherwise never bring up my sexuality as I dont want to make things 'weird'.
What kind of gay stuff am I supposed to be doing, how often am I supposed to do it, and how do i make my life more normal? How often do normal people do stuff like flirt or whatever?
Being monastically alone all the time isnt fun.
>>16923508
Maybe you're not gay just because you like gay porn.
It's called Grindr.
>>16923568
I'm pretty sure I am gay. Sometimes at night I spend a lot of time thinking about how nice it would be to have a bf to cuddle with and stuff.
I think I just lack the selfconfidence to do anything about it.
>>16923575
It doesnt feel right to have that be my very first sexual experience. maybe im naive but i feel like i need to have at least one 'natural' relationship before I start doing that kind of thing.
>>16923583
Then find a chubby girl and suck her toes bruv
>>16923508
>what kind of gay stuff am i supposed to be doing
having sex with me nyou find attractive, dating men you find worthy
>how often am i supposed to do it
whenever you want to. no more, no less.
>how do i make my life more normal
in what sense? do you enjoy the normalcy? define normal.
>how often do normal people do stuff like flirt or whatever
why is thta important? flirt when you want to and only with guys you want to flirt with. there isn't some weird space monster keeping track on his cosmic counter.
>being monastically alone all the time isnt fun
then talk to guys as you see fit. why do you need some quota to meet in order to do it at all?
see cute guy, go talk. meeting an arbitrary quota wont actually make you meet the right people.
you in socal? ill take you on a date.
>>16923583
i dont blame you. i used grindr for years and its shit. as soon as i deleted it i started meeting guys naturally and its way more fun
>>16923657
But there is no point in flirting with attractive people, even if I knew how to. They will just be straight and/or creeped out.
Oh, and I live in london. That means its even harder to talk to people anyway. thanks for the offer though :3
