Should I tell someone that they're the first person I've had sex with? Or do I just overthink things?
>>16921082
Don't tell them
>>16921095
Why is this the general advice?
I've got a similar situation on the horizon, and I feel like it'd be completely normal to tell them? I feel like it would relieve first-time anxiety and make it a lot easier for everyone if you both know what you're getting into.
I wouldn't. In fact I didn't. I lied and told my gf that I had sex one time previously and it wasn't a good experience. That way I covered my bases for being inexperienced and didn't come across as a virgin.
I told my fiance, she made fun of me for a bit casually and took charge during sex. She still makes fun of me occasionally.
But I don't know, it depends, if you feel close enough to her go for it.
If she's just a one jump-off don't tell her.
>>16921126
Only if you're a chick.
Never tell a chick you're a virgin. That shit is for movies. Just pretend you've done this before you pussy.
