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2016-03-15 20:58:46 Post No. 16920020
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2016-03-15 20:58:46
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>dating girl I met in japan
>6 month relationship, we cut it off for a about two days when I returned to US, but immediately go back to dating
>everything is peachy and amazing, despite being long distance
>She tells me I motivate her every day and that she loves me
>I ask if she would like to skype on White Day (day before White Day)
>no response
>White day
>I wish her a happy White Day
>no response
>italian guy friend of hers adds me on FB
>(me)"Hi italian guy. Are you a friend of [girlfriend]?"
>(him)"Hey.Oh whoops I must have added you by accident, my bad"
>(me)"Oh okay, has she mentioned me?"
>(him)"Yeah she mentions a lot of guys lol"
My heart literally shatters
>(me)"I'm her boyfriend... At least I thought I was?"
>(him)"Oh no, I meant she mentions a lot of people. Hard to keep track. I added you by accident, sorry"
>1 day later
>I stitched myself back together, but my nerves are still shot. I had trouble sleeping last night, I'm tired, worried and above all, scared. I'm distracted with work and at the gym. Normally I'm confident and easy going, but not today.
>I recognize a good portion of it (at least) is all in my head
>I talk to one of my friends, he says his last relationship was ruined because he became paranoid around his girlfriend's guy friends
>I talk to another one of my friends (who had a crush on me). She tells me to smile and that I'm almost certainly overthinking it.
How do I stop this internal witchhunt? How do I bring myself back to my stable usual self? Should I even bring this up to her, or should I hold it in?