Self-Confidence
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So I recently found a flaw in myself that I need to fix but I want to talk about it here and see what everyone thinks. I noticed that I turn myself off to a girl before I talk with them, for example if I see one sitting there I say to myself nah she won't want to sit next to me she will think im a creep, which is a normal thought I guess, but recently it's leaked over to my friend group. We go to a resturant me two guys and a girl and I don't sit next to her because I think to myself she won't want to sit next to me she will not say anything but secretly hate the fact. What the hell can I do to change my mind-set and not put myself down before even trying anything? I feel like it will eventually leak out into the real world for me and not just girls and I will miss alot of chances and whatever else might happen in my life.
Be selfish and fuck what other people want. If you put yourself above others your self confidence will increase.
Just know when to tone it back
>>16916756
So basically just run through like a hurricane and not care about anything?
Lift weights
>>16917558
Actually at the gym right now.
>>16916743
curious, did you have both parents growing up?
