At the end of last month I experienced the last of what has been

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2016-03-13 20:53:23 Post No. 16912093
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Anonymous 2016-03-13 20:53:23 Post No. 16912093 [Report]

At the end of last month I experienced the last of what has been many rock bottom moments for me with drinking, and I've come to terms with the fact that I'm an alcoholic.

I've begun the process of trying to quit. I've been sober for 15 days and have never felt better. It's the longest I've ever gone without drink. While I'm finding it manageable (distracting myself with the gym, other hobbies), I am absolutely terrified of socializing without it. Booze has always been my crutch when I go out with friends, talking to girls, being social at bars, etc.

Since I quit, I've been dodging my friends and staying in on weekends. I want to go out with my friends again while sober. But I feel like it will be impossible to continue meeting girls / making new friends when I become that weird guy at the bar who doesn't drink. Anyone on /adv/ ever been in a situation like this?

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Anonymous 2016-03-13 21:06:56 Post No.16912142
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Anonymous 2016-03-13 21:06:56 Post No.16912142 [Report]

pretend you're drinking but obviously don't have any alcohol and be the vibrant life of the party. as everyone gets wasted you'll feel good knowing you're in control and sharp thinking and witty.

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Anonymous 2016-03-13 21:41:25 Post No.16912257
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Anonymous 2016-03-13 21:41:25 Post No.16912257 [Report]

>>16912093

Hey OP, alcoholic here too... that social crutch is really a big deal for me too. I'm also on a sober stint (but I don't feel as good as you do).

Something that works for me occasionally is energy drinks. I find that if I'm more hyper, I'm more chatty, and I get a little more comfortable myself in a bit.

It isn't easy to be the sober person at the bar, especially when everyone thinks you're the life of the party. I normally just play it off as the cool guy that's working out and getting in shape - funny enough, people don't seem to question vanity as much as they do "having a problem" or "I just don't want to drink."

It's probably best to come clean with your buddies, but I wouldn't bring up the awkwardness to women or new people right off the bat.