how and how often do you communicate with your bf / gf when you are in a relationship ?
just wondering because I was only ever in one, and it was like this.
>at first we would talk on messenger after work during the evening up to bedtime, and a few messages in the morning
>then also a few messages/planning shit during work hours
>there was a period where she would call me around 1 hour each day of the week to talk and was frustrated I had nothing to say / wasn't fun
I honestly don't know how to handle this too well, sometimes it feels overwhelming to have to maintain a convo while at work, or it feels overwhelming as well you are home alone, trying to play vidya, but from 9 PM to 2 AM you are sparingly talking to your gf at the same time. It feels like this is stressing me more than relaxing me.
Am I an asshole or autistic as fuck?
How do normal couples communicate (if they don't live together) usually ?
Sometimes we send good morning texts. We always have a short, hey how was your day convo before bed. Sometimes we call, maybe once every two weeks. That's it. We see each other once on the weekend.
i'm litterally doing facetime with her 1 hour a day