Hey adv, I had a question
So me and a female friend are v close, but as of lately her reply times went from 1-2 min to 10-15 min sometimes even longer. When we talked a few months ago, we both asked each other to hangout and now, it's usually me asking. Irl, everything seems fine and her and I are going to prom together in a week. But over chat, she now seems a bit muted in contrast to how she used to be. This may be BC of school stress but I'm scared if it's not. What do ? Am I overthinking?
>>16907906
Not here to make you scared or anything OP but my girlfriend started doing the same exact thing and she broke up with me a little over a week later. If you two aren't already dating, you need to pop the question while you can, she might think you're being to slow with her.
>>16907930
Well here's the thing.
She had told me a few month ago taht she doesn't want anyone liking her BC she's scared taht would ruin the friendship. I don't think I like her in that way and I don't want a relationship in case It ruins our current friendship
Stop being her girl friend.
>>16907962
That's very humble of you OP, but here's my one piece of advice I can give you: girl's almost NEVER mean what they say. They're confusing and will never give you a straight answer to your face. If you don't want to be in a relationship with her, then you're already in the clear, but that may not be what she wants.
>>16907975
I feel ya but this exchange between her and I happened a few months ago and I can assure you she doesn't want a relationship with me
>>16907906
>going to prom together in a week
You must be 18 to post on 4chan.
>>16907975
Kek, a girl I really like said the same thing about how she thinks a relationship would ruin the friendship
She meant it
>>16907906
You're overthinking like crazy and if you don't cut it out you're going to suffocate her.
Read this sentence again, slowly: "Her response times to my texts have gone from a couple of minutes to ten minutes or more!" Now tell me with a straight face that it sounds like a real problem still.
>>16908056
LOL anon, ty for taht slap to reality, ily