What is charisma?
Is it possible to learn charisma or you must be born with it?
How does one become a charismatic person?
I'm asking because i know this man who is incredibly charismatic and i'm gonna be sincere, i envy him. He's average looking, he doesn't have a great voice, he's not rich, he's not fit and he's even short, but still when he talks everyone in the room listens to him, people like to have conversations with him and women particularly enjoy being around him, even women far above his league seem to be easily captivated by him.
Go to prison. A year in there will break your shell.
>>16901915
whoa.
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Am also interested in an answer
I think the charisma is something that you developing from experience in your life
This is charisma.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AnpTWKKWQ1o
I'd say charisma is the crossroads of communication theory and acting practice. Study communications and a apply what you learn. I'm sure some people pick it up quicker than others but that applies to any skill.
>>16901886
Charisma is having the courage or the ego to say what others are afraid to
>>16902185
I don't really think so, if you say things most people disagree/dislike, you will be viewed as annoying rather than charismatic, even if what you said takes a lot of guts to say.
>>16902196
You aren't gonna make it jabroni
Charisma is openly being yourself without pissing too many people off
>>16901886
I learned charisma by emulating my favorite movie characters and working retail for a few years.
It also helps to get into stand up comedy and learn how to be funny.
>>16902379
lol
I think we all know this guy....
Have interests, passions and share them. Find out what interests others and learn more about them. Conversation is relentlessly formulaic, learn tricks to break the formula's and you even if what you are saying has the same substance as everyone else at least you can say it in an interesting way.
It's non-neediness and responding well to social cues. If you are in your 20's I would say forget about making being charismatic the goal, like wanting to do 100 pushups. Just focus on improving yourself and developing passions and be genuinely interested in others.
>>16902432
God you touchy feely types are the worst. Most people can be read easily by their body language and outfit then talked to specifically based on what you expect them to want to hear.
No one wants to hear about how much you enjoy magic the gathering.
To become charismatic or funny requires one of two things.
>live an interesting life
>have interesting thoughts
Or a combination of the two. There is nothing wrong with learning how to speak and carry yourself from actors who are paid to play people who know how to speak and carry themselves. Nor does it make you less le deeeep of a person for doing so. I can speak passionately about acid jazz but no one wants to hear about it.
And learning humor from comdedians helps too. Most people don't know how to tell a story or a joke well. Learn delivery and pacing.
Charisma is about knowing what people want and giving it to them.
Fake it till you make it, faggot
>>16902534
This desu senpai
>>16901886
Alright heres what charisma is. Confidence in who you are and the ability to properly express that.
Basically git gud at something. If you arent a conceited asshole then you will be considered charismatic.
