Break up
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so my gf just texted me about her wanting to break up since she feels dissapointed... I really like and love this girl, i was lucky that she was the one to ask me out. She said to me that she wanted to take it kinda slow so i decided to not push her to do anything that she didnt really agree to (not talking about rape you lewd weirdo).
She is talking about a breakdown i had the day it was our anniversary, i was just kinda pissed not at her but well other life stuff, so the anniversary didnt go quite well.
other than that it has been going really well even though we are talking it pretty slow.
i just dont know what to do... what to say... i might just end it all... nothing else in my life is doing so well... she was the only thing i had going other than my art, and we all know how shitty most artists have it unless they are very gifted n shit.
pls i dont know anywhere else i can ask for help on this, is it even possible to like cancel a break up? idunno anymore.
Here is the text just for good measure...
>>16899980
Alright anon, I think I can help you out here.
This happened to me about a year ago and I did everything wrong, everything, and through
constant and /adv/ threads I know what you should do.
First off, say are you sure about this, is this really what you want, and after you get that answer, drop her.
You both seem to have a issue, you with your life shit, her with her anxiety.
You are your most important person and you need to get whatever you need under the rug. I was depressed, and it affected me way more than I ever thought it was and it ended a good relationship.
Second, she has issues as well. It's more than likely bullshit, "m-muh anxiety," is really you fucking stress me the fuck out. It's stupid, but it boils down to that. She wouldn't break up with you over superficial shit like a anneversary, there is something else you are doing.
Third, to maybe save face, or some special spark of a relationship. No contact. Just say," If this is how you feel, okay." Leave it at that and no talking to her. Work on yourself and just look the other way. Maybe three months down the road you check up on her, but to be honest block her out and actually work on yourself
