Not sure if i should message a lost friend
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Well me and this girl used to be very close friends, and we were always there for each other, but one day about half a year ago i told her how i felt about her JUST to get it off my chest but she didn't understand me and pretty much abandoned our friendship because she just thought i was being like any other guy that liked her.
I want to message her, but i feel like it would just upset her.
Idk what to do guys
>>16898892
Don't, dude. I'm in a similar boat and I'm glad I didn't do it. It will just make you look weak and if she treats her friends like this, she's not worth it.
>>16898892
>but one day about half a year ago
dont. I did the same thing and it just made everything worse, trust me.
Don't do it. That's reputation-killing levels of creepy.
If she had rejected you gently, I would say that you might be able to contact her once your feelings had cooled and you had ZERO remaining romantic interest. But it sounds like she rejected you pretty strongly, and that means Never Again.
I'm sorry, OP, but she's gone. Let her go.
