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So I broke up with my gf of two years a couple days ago because I just wasn't feeling it anymore. I didn't really want to be around her or hangout with her anymore and it seemed like everything she did just annoyed me. We would get in fights all the time mostly because i was just being an asshole and i don't know why. Even after all this she was still completely in love with me and heart broken when i ended it. Now i miss the fuck out of her and cant handle her not being in my life. But when i think about getting back together i get an awful feeling that it will just happen all over again. What should i do?
come on guys im desperate
>>16896879
Kill yourself
You Fucking know what will happen if you get back together and you still even consider it?
My roommate got back with his cheating manipulative ex and the same stupid shit is happening except they argue and fuck a lot more.
Get over it already. It's just the chemicals confusing you. Love is a lie. Reproduce and wait to die
>>16896879
Apologize to her from the heart. Ask if she will take you back.
Does spending your time with her out weigh the bullshit. People never change unless a major life event happens. So if you tske her back she will still be the same person you broke up with.
i think it's pretty normal to get comfortable and bored in a relationship. ideally i guess you should want to find someone who you will never get that feeling about but i don't know if that is even possible.
if you're with someone you should appreciate them all the time and not take them for granted. what is the point? if you are with someone you should want to be with them 100% and give it everything.
communicate. it's normal to get those sort of feelings. spend more time apart if you do get back together.
>>16896943
i know she will take me back she has already told me, but im not sure thats the right descision in the long run even though it will make me happy right now
>>16896975
Make an effort to be around her, start to act how you feel now, not how you felt then.
>>16896972
whenever i would get bored in the past the feeling would leave after a couple days. But it stayed with me this time for weeks which convinced me it was time to end it. I juts don't understand why i miss her so much if just a few days ago i didn't want to even be around her.
