Hey adv I need help. I can't stop thinking about this girl.
I've never connected with anyone the way I did with her. She is literally the epitome of everything I ever wanted in a mate. We were extremely close for a while but I couldn't make a move because she had a fiancé and a kid with him and I didn't want to get in the middle of that, no matter how unhappy she was with that piece of shit. Anyway I fucked up bad and as a result she thought it would be better for her and her family if we didn't hang out anymore.
It's been almost 2 years and I still can't get her off my mind. She has since left her fiancé and is with a new guy now. It breaks my heart knowing she probably never thinks about me anymore and that she is happier with him then I could have ever made her.
Anyway adv how do I get over her?
>>16896709
I was in the same position (being with the perfect girl in every single aspect) , but we actually dated and it just didn't work out.
I just completely cut her out of my life, and after about 3 years I forget what she even looks like now. My best buddy killed himself and after 6 years I don't even remember what HE looked like. Kind of depressing when I want to get nostalgic and I can't even remember their faces or voices, but at least I got what i wanted...to forget about them
TL;DR: Time, and distance
Well I was effectively cut off. I've seen her twice in 2 years because we have mutual friends. Every once in a while my close friend who is married to her best friend tells me how she is doing. That's how I know she's dating someone else. I can't tell him how much I miss her though...
