Alright so heres my situation, I work as a bartender at a club
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Alright so heres my situation, I work as a bartender at a club near a college where a lot of my co workers attend. Well one night 4 girls walk up to the bar to order drinks and when I looked at one of them we kinda had like a thing. I dont know how to explain it but we had something and she smiled, I took their orders and my coworker who ironically know them gave them there stuff and they wondered off.
30 minutes later they come back and I work up the nerve to talk to her. I got her name and we really hit it off, sadly her friends pulled her away from the bar so I could ask for her number.
>now heres the problem
I looked on Facebook and found her from her first name only. Now...
>is it weird if I add her
Yes. The only way to interact with her on a normal, non-weird basis is if you run into her again by chance.
Move on. Don't obsess about the one girl you could have had something with. Its weird for girls to feel obsessed about and its not good for your mental health.