why am i uncomfortable with ppl spending money on me

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why am i uncomfortable with ppl spending money on me 2016-03-09 00:42:15Post No. 16893051
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why am i uncomfortable with ppl spending money on me Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:42:15 Post No. 16893051 [Report]

Hey /adv/ Im only posting this because there really is no where else I can say this.
I am extremely uncomfortable with people spending money on me.
I feel extremely guilty. Why did they waste money on me? I told them i didnt want anything. Why do people ALWAYS PUSH IT.
Im a girl too, so a lot of people think im just pulling that 'no means yes' bs.
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I dont want ppl wasting their money on me

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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:47:53 Post No.16893072
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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:47:53 Post No.16893072 [Report]

>>16893051
i am the same way. i dont buy shit for others, either (except xmas and bdays, and even then only family or gf).

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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:49:03 Post No.16893079
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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:49:03 Post No.16893079 [Report]

>>16893051
Just tell the person spending money on you to stop. When they ask why - just say you don't feel comfortable with them spending money on you. When they push the matter - just say that it's a personal issue. The end.

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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:56:31 Post No.16893098
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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:56:31 Post No.16893098 [Report]

>>16893051
This is more common than you think.

Just INSIST on splitting stuff and refuse gifts unless they shove it in your face for three minutes screaming PLEEAAASE and crying. Don't smile either. Smiling and saying no is an actual mixed message.

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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:57:25 Post No.16893100
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Anonymous 2016-03-09 00:57:25 Post No.16893100 [Report]

Just say "Please don't spend money on me, I don't want to feel like I owe you anything." and then steer clear of anyone who does it anyway. Doubles as a Nice Guy filter.

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Anonymous 2016-03-09 07:44:07 Post No.16894412
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Anonymous 2016-03-09 07:44:07 Post No.16894412 [Report]

Fuck, I know what you mean. And I don't want to make anyone feel bad if I refuse their gift. Most people don't even make me aware that they got me something until after the fact.

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anonymous 2016-03-09 07:50:04 Post No.16894421
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anonymous 2016-03-09 07:50:04 Post No.16894421 [Report]

i feel u lol. it's actually the worst bc i end up broke because i literally just usain bolt my way to the cashier and pay for everything...........