I can fuck multiple people and still feel like both people are important to me. But if someone I fuck fucks someone else I get really depressed. I imagine this is pretty common. How do we get over ourselves?
>>16881344
Point a gun to your head and pull the trigger
>>16881351
advice from someone who isn't a virgin or deluded sjw please
>>16881361
I'm neither, you're a degenerate
>>16881366
I don't even understand what perspective you're coming from then. I honestly thought I covered all the possibilities in that other post
>>16881370
Kill yourself dude, please.
Can anybody roll the How to hang yourself picture?
I'm used to people being hostile on 4chan but this is just weird. Could someone explain what I said that is triggering? or am I being memed
>>16881379
Found it.
would options help?
a) you can't get any and deny that people that do get some have concerns and feel hurt too
b) you're autistic and care too much about my hypocrisy because you don't understand how feelings work
c) you're a sjw and care too much about my hypocrisy because you don't understand how feelings work
d) you think I'm referring to people I'm in a relationship with
e) you think I shouldn't be fucking multiple people for some reason
f) memes
Do you enjoy fucking yourself?
>>16881388
I could read this two ways. yes and my dick can't reach my ass or mouth and I've tried both, respectively
bump for any half serious reply
>>16881425
I was completely serious
>>16881433
what's your reasoning then? I mean I'm obviously not going to kill myself, but I can't even see what's objectionable about what I said or am doing, so you're going to have to elaborate. also, I can't get mad if there's no substance to what you say, if that's your goal
>>16881344
well... it is pretty normal to be a bit possessive. but with time to get used to it, and you should stop feeling bad about it
>>16881439
I object to the notion, you coarsely described, of fucking multiple people at once and calling them important. You fucked them and they're important. Clearly some high caliber women you're dealing with here. You get "depressed" after one of these sluts fucks someone else. Like it was unexpected. Your hedonism is disgusting. You and your harlots should be cleansed with fire.
>>16881449
Well, it's not like I fuck just anyone, and neither do they. And they are important to me, which simply means I care about them am interested in them and like them as people which is what I hope they feel of me. And I feel like they do, which is why my jealousy seems unwarranted to me
>>16881459
>I hope they feel of me
>jealousy seems unwarranted to me
That's called being insecure
>>16881468
Yeah, I can't deny that. I was pretty avoidant for a few years because I assumed no one liked me. Lingering feelings like that probably contribute to my jealousy. The question of how to get over myself still stands
>>16881473
Knowing is half the battle
Maybe just point blank ask them how they feel about you
Don't make it a habit to require reassurance or might become a dependent crybaby
Like me ;^)
>>16881480
Trying to make it less of a habit desu. Making this thread was part of that effort
Also
>when it's revealed it was projection all along
Kind of poetic I say sincerely
>>16881344
I hate all these replies.
But yes it is common I'd imagine. I def feel that way. Apparently polyamorous people train themselves to 'feel happy' that someone they care about is getting pleasure. I don't know. Maybe read 'the ethical slut'
>>16881493
I did a similar thing, had a girlfriend and a side girl at the same time. They both knew.
I left them both, that was my solution
>>16881506
What does it say about me that the ethical slut and books about mindfulness are what's most recommended to me... Thanks though, I probably will check it out
