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how to stop being sensitive?
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>be goofing around with friends in group chat
>banter escalates and I kick a friend from the chat as a joke, intending to add them back moments later
>someone else kicks me in response and adds the other person back
>waiting for someone to add me back
>2 hours go by and nobody does
>message a couple people asking to add me back
>they either don't respond or say no
>eventually someone adds me back
>mfw reading through what they were saying about me and seeing them post screenshots of my messages ad laughing

I mean okay haha good joke but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't upset over this, how do I stop being so sensitive?
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>>16860862
>how do I stop being so sensitive?
You can dish it out but you can't take it? Then stop dishing it out.
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>>16860868
I mean I wasn't really expecting to be left out for so long and then even have to ask to be let back in.
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What have they said about you while you where gone?
If it was in a humorous way that wasn't too hurtfull, then you are def overreacting. Start to be able to laugh over yourself
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>>16860871
Yeah, you started and got what you deserved. Maybe they are sick and tired of your agressive "banter". Maybe you overdid it with kicking somebody out in the first place. You need to really be carefull when doing banter. It can go too far in an instant
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>>16860875
okay well, I kicked them as a joke because they kept spamming the chat emoji. Is that what you'd consider aggressive?

>>16860872
ehh nothing too bad, none of it was serious really
>guys anon's being a pain in the ass and heckling me to add him back
>don't add him back ever
>we don't need him
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