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Does anyone have an experience like this..?
I started dating this girl a couple years ago, my first girlfriend ( I'm 24 she's 21 ). We dated up until a couple months ago then broke up. Until that time we lived together. I'm pretty sure I fell in love. Then I broke it off.. I had to, for personal reasons. But we still talk everyday. I don't want to get back with her, for various reasons. One being, that there is a very high chance that, for all intents and purposes, I am gay. But I love her still, and I just want to make sure she's okay. She was and is very insecure.. Extremely so. And so I don't tell her I love her anymore. And I don't flirt or anything. But I still tell her she's beautiful, I don't want to lead her on but I want to continue building her. I talk to her almost every day, she tells me about her day and stuff. I just want her to be okay. I hear in her voice the.. complete surrender that we had together.. I tear up almost every time we talk, but she can't hear it.
Just wondering how many people continued talking to their exes for a long time, staying friends ( we live across the country now so it's only
Over IM facebook phone ) and stuff and how that worked out for you.. Appreciate any response I get
>>16856387
I guess you can't tell her you're gay?
Personally I have a hard time talking to exes, but it's not like I have close female friends anyway.
>>16856448
We are very open, I was telling her I was probably gay before we broke up. I don't have a hard time talking to her at all. I don't talk to anyone else, I don't have any friends I talk to regularly besides her. I've heard exes can't be friends but I think maybe her and I can. I just don't have any relationship experience ( well until this ) so that's why I asked.>>>>16856448
But then all these websites say staying in contact is the worst idea.. Fuck.. I suppose it will resolve itself eventually
