Am I in the wrong here? My friends like to hangout with this guy that I don't like. I don't like him because he would always make fun of me in hs. I met him a year after hs and he was still an ass so I assume that he'll be this way forever.
I told my friend I feel left out and he says that he's always down to hangout but he rarely ever invites me and it seems that I have to setup everything every time.
Does this mean they prefer the other guy over me? Is it selfish of me to refuse to hangout if he's gonna be there?
>>16855503
It's not exactly selfish. But you put your friends in an awkward position by forcing a "him or me" ultimatum like that, and you'll have nobody but yourself to blame if it backfires.
