>What is a personal weakness of yours, anon?
Answer?
Responding to stupid questions. They'll get the message.
>>16833555
kek'd
>>16833555
Nice, I like trolling idiots.
I have no actual implicit reason for existing, and only continue to exist so my family doesn't have to deal with debt. Once that debt is paid I won't exist anymore. I am nothing more than a means to an end drawing breath.
I fear for the future when I should be concentrating on the present.
I don't trust.
a personal weakness would be how much i dont give a fuck about things i dont give a fuck about
I set such I high standard for myself that I am bound to fail, but don't have it in me to expect anything but the best, even when the constant failure is mentally breaking me down.
even though i'm average size down there, (and a virgin) i fear that girls might laugh at my Johnson. by average, it can be 5.75"-6" (6 if i am reeeeally hard which doesn't happen a lot).
>>16833657
Please don't say that in a job interview.
I take very few things seriously and have trouble forming meaningful relationships. This probably leads people to think I'm callus
Food and picking my skin
>>16833549
How charming are you? That decides the answer. The more charming you are, the more honest you should be. Why? Because that question is usually in the last 4th of the interview. By that point a charmer has made the interviewer comfortable and interested. Revealing a genuine non-prepared/expected answer you actually build trust. It's a huge part of how I break down walls with people. So my answer is usually that when I'm put under intense pressure I get a little sloppy. A note I would find in 3 seconds may take me 60. I might have a stack of papers on my desk whereas usually it's meticulous.
Otherwise give those silly prepped responses. I work too hard. I don't know how to leave work at the office. I'm a people pleaser. But know that every dingus answers that way.
I pretend like everything is going just great even if it's not, so then when everyone finds out what a real shitshow is going on, they panic, I panic, and everything goes to absolute hell. This cycle seems to repeat every 3 years or so.
tl;dr I'm a really convincing liar and it fucks me over.
Depression
I have too many to count but i'll try to narrow it down to the worst of the bunch.
>too prideful and can't stand being wrong, which has lead to several fights and friendships being lost
>incapable of taking things seriously
>crave attention to the point where i can get severally depressed when someone isn't engaging with me
>have severe anger issues
>never talk with anyone about what's troubling me and always keep things bottled up
>always too quick to prove myself as the "smart one" or the "mature one" among peers even though i'm incredibly average
all of these and more have contributed to the horrible human being i am today.
I unintentionally make things harder on myself. This, being coupled with absent-mindedness and being clumsy, isn't a good combination. I work best under pressure, which can be a bad thing.
>>16833555
>why can't i find a job?
I second guess myself to the point of just becoming inactive, a lot of it is fear of embarrassment. It makes performing very difficult
>>16833549
I DONT HAVE A WEAKNESS CUM BUCKET
I am bottling up all my feelings. You dont wanna be there when they all pop out
>>16834083
I know this feel all too well
>>16833549
I have a phobia of vomiting, which occasionally influences my decision making. Things like, I avoid foods that I used to like and I don't drink alcohol anymore.
>>16833549
i cant acknowledge or admit that im not good enough to do what i want to do.
I have weakness over when it comes to helping people. I always wanna solve everyone's problems..and when I can't I get depressed..
Another is I have a weakness for Starbucks green tea frapps...
I'm extremely headstrong. It's hard for me to apologize, or admit when I'm in the wrong. I have a bad habit of talking over people without realizing it too.
Because of that, I also have trouble analyzing my personal flaws, so self improvement can also be difficult. On the plus side I've been getting better about this over the years I think.
>>16833549
I'm like Goku, getting my tail grabbed makes me weak
>>16834165
I wish you wouldn't. Kills me inside but I still can't get those tears out when I should.
Whatever your problem, the point in the interview is to say that you're making progress to solve it
You don't just say the flaw and that's it
I have very little self control, but this is only apparent when it comes to certain things like lust :(
>>16833985
Are you me?
>>16833549
Permanent procrastination
About to finish my bachelors degree and enter master next term which i always dreamt of. Still here i sit with my lunch for almost an hour.
Probably will sniggle through master too, but im worried about lacking skills. All those ubernerds are terrifying.
>>16833549
Sometimes when I sneeze I get this pull in my right nut.
People skills.
I can be a bit shy at times.
I have a porn addiction, and I wanna quit. But, I keep going back to it and fall into a pit of self-pity and disgust. I'm also very critical of myself, so I end up being tense and awkward in alot of my social interactions, which ends up fueling the cycle all over again. So fuck it
>>16833549
>brutal honesty
>I don't understand why honesty is a weakness
>I don't give a fuck what you think
One finger gun and open a burrito. Jobs yours.
Crystal meth is my weakness desu
More talking to more than 5 people
>>16833549
Social interaction has to be my number one weakness.
Every single conversation is like a convo from a RPG where someone asks you something and you have to choose the right answer, but instead of a few choices you have a million choices to choose from. No matter with whom or what it is about, the smallest of small talks doesn't matter, my brain is working like 110% just to keep it all together. I am struggling to hold the most basic conversation with the cash register guy, let alone any kind of advanced interaction of showing your interest in girls or something like that
Cute boys.
>>16834751
Lol okay :P
But do you really care? Does the cash register guy really care?
My one weakness is staying around the wrong people because of insecurity. I seriously hate it and wish to end it, but I'm scared I wont make it on my own. It feels like shit.
>>16834918
You will make it on your own. Bare through it.
>>16833549
Shaking and sweating at new job as we speak
>>16833657
>>16833709
Do it. Employers need entertainment too.
>>16834296
And how does that make you feel?
>>16834660
My nigga I know exactly how you feel
>>16834896
Probably not he'Pl just laugh at this spaz when he leaves
>>16833549
I have this compulsive desire to beat the shit out of bad people.
>tfw was fired from previous job for throwing asshole manager across the factory floor
I cant stop posting my kik code on the internet
I care about pleasing my wife to much when I know she could care less about me. Im too much of a yes man I suppose.
>Vomiting when too drunk
>Unable to get a hard on when I'm drunk
>Literally unable to get a gf
>I expect too much from myself and others/perfectionist
I'm lazy.
>>16833549
Pictured in OP: Two apes that can't figure out pants.
>>16835301
>Never able to not get hard.
>get hard when dancing with a woman and her tits brush against me.
>unable to get girlfriend.
>perfectionist and lazy.
>depression.
>dont get people.
>Make jokes people would laugh at if it were in a movie or tv show, but is terrible in person.
>Obsessed with women, probably more and more because of every year that passes without "normal" relationships with them.
>Want to be with people, but then when I start talking to them, I really have zero interest in what they have to say.
Im shy, and lazy.
>>16835341
>>16835301
I've been unable to get hard enough to fuck my two past girlfriends, and im still a virgin because of that.
>>16833549
i cant stop having heterosexual intercourse in the missionary position with the lights off for the sole purpose of procreation
pls no bully
I have absolutely no self-confidence and hate myself.
>>16833549
>>What is a personal weakness of yours, anon?
>Answer?
I'm a 35 year old man browsing 4chan.
I care too much about people, no matter how much I know about them, and it consumes me.
when I have a crush my life revolves around that one person
>>16833549
>>What is a personal weakness of yours, anon?
Caring too much.
>>16833549
I have no discipline or ability to accomplish anything. It is impossible for me to focus. I cannot study or read books.
>>16833549
Women. That's all I lust after because it's the one thing I haven't been able to get. Tits ass vag... That's all I dream about.
>>16833549
conspiracy theorist I don't want to be rude because you are dating a family member, I also don't want to be rude to my friends i have known since high school but damn it the earth isn't flat nor was 9/11 an inside job fuck off
I have an incredibly guilt focused conscience. I feel bad about bad things not in my control, blame myself for those things occurring and then call myself a terrible person. I then set unrealistically high standards for myself and get even more disappointed when I can't meet them.
Visiting this place over and over again knowing I will never get one piece of good advice since it's populated by misogynists, latent homosexuals and misogynistic latent homosexuals. All the "good" advice boils down to vague fortune cookie bullshit.
I mean, right now about half the threads are some variation on 'I hate women'.
Where the fuck do I look for help?
Being unable to lie and pass by injustice.
>>16836827
What do you need advice on?
>>16836837
I don't know, just mingling with the rest of society but I am so far back socially.
I'll make another post in the morning, I need some sleep for now.
Believing other people won't take advantage of me in order to fulfill whatever it is they apparently need to fulfill.
>>16836993
P-P-P-P-PROTIP: Quit being a misanthropic piece of shit. Not everyone on /adv/ is a troll, and just because we don't hold your hand and coddle you doesn't mean we don't give a fuck about your well-being. If we didn't care about you, we wouldn't have the suicide hotline posted.
>>16833549
When people talk to me i always put out the vibe that i dont give a fuck about anything, even though i care about a lota stuff
I cant ever make serious intellectual friends, its always bros
>>16833657
Girls really aren't going to give a shit about an average sized dick, I don't know why I need to say this.
That said, the only thing less attractive than something that is objectively unattractive is when some one is self concious about it.
I am very easily discouraged, I am full of self-doubt and self-loathing. I am also incredibly stubborn, to a fault. I will and have failed just to prove that I can't be told what to do. It am overcomopensation for a fragile ego. I'm also explosively angry.
I think I may habe NPD.
>>16837349
I also don't proofread.
>>16833549
I doubt myself a bit too much; it's been hurting me for a while, and if I could wish for one thing to be granted freely to me, it would be to have unbreakable confidence and self-esteem.
I don't plan. I don't express my feelings to those close to me. I can't express sympathy without it sounding fake. I give solutions not comfort. I hold onto grudges. I can't keep a conversation for long. I am basically a beta struggling to be an alpha.
Loose bowels
>>16833650
Same
I can't stop to compare myself to others.
Social phobia/apathy
I'm terrible at communication.
>>16834599
Same here, i have too much shit that i want to do, but i keep wasting my time on vidya because it feels comfy and i keep getting fatter.
I also set some relatively high standards, and as such, i've yet to get a relationship because i didn't liked the girls who showed interest in me. I just want someone who's cute, not fat/chubby and not a shit person in one way or another. If she has the crazy like a lot of those do, at least we'll last a month.
>>16835341
>>unable to get girlfriend.
>>dont get people.
>>Make jokes people would laugh at if it were in a movie or tv show, but is terrible in person.
>>Obsessed with women, probably more and more because of every year that passes without "normal" relationships with them.
>>Want to be with people, but then when I start talking to them, I really have zero interest in what they have to say.
i share these, except i do show interest when people tell me about meaningful stuff from their lives, since i have a sort of hero complex and want to help them in any way i can.
I don't speak much and when i meet new peoples they think i'm autistic because of that
My slim 4 inch wiener. No self-esteem.
Too many to count. But most of the big ones like depression, social anxiety, health and other things are dwarfed by me not being able to commit. I can't even commit to sending in a job application without being practically forced to. I do the see how I will get out of that. And it will fight me at every turn.
Horribly disorganized.
It's something that all employers completely reject, because I'm late to everything. I'm eerily good at math which makes no sense because I can never show my work, and mathematical proofs are completely beyond my abilities. However I can arrive at the right answer to complex problems 95% of the time. Physics is a breeze too, especially fields and thermodynamics, but when there are multiple steps like flux or multiple boundaries, I lose track of everything. I've been tested for ADD and ADHD multiple times. It's always negative because I have no problem with concentration and patience. I'm literally crying right now.
>>16839318
>I'm eerily good at math which makes no sense because I can never show my work, and mathematical proofs are completely beyond my abilities. However I can arrive at the right answer to complex problems 95% of the time
>Good at math.
>95% of the time.
Well im a littly lazy, but my biggest problem is dedication i guess. Ive always wanted to pick up a specific hobby, study intensively or just do something, but I lose interest or motivation real fast. I just cant seem to find something and stick to it. Could anyone possibly give me a few tips to be more dedicated or keep my motivation up?
>>16838938
same, but how are you with people when you've known them for longer?
I barely talk to new people, but to my best friend I talk about anything, and others i've known a while, it's just easy to interact.
>>16833549
Despite having a large penis, I am insecure about my penis size.
>>16840363
You sicken me.
>>16833549
Can I list multiple ones?
>tend to be lazy and procrastinate a lot
>Judgmental asshole
>Tend to be really elitist about my views
>Get obnoxious and loud when excited, angry , etc.
>get annoyed easily
thinking to the point of inaction
>>16840363
Despite having a large penis, I don't use it
I find it difficult to tell people no, and have let people walk over me until a point I had to firmly put my foot down, which seemed uncharacteristic to people who'd grown accustomed to how I was.
I didn't like how that made me and others around me feel, so I've been working on it.
I think in an interview it's important to admit a weakness, give an example of a time it's held you back, and what steps you are taking to improve yourself.
There are things I want to do in my life but I'm scared to fail. I sacrifice my ambitions to live a comfortable life, hoarding my money and taking classes. Then I wonder why I don't ever feel fulfilled.
Everything I want to do will take so much hard work and practice, I'm worried I'll disrupt my routine and go in too deep. If I sacrifice comfort and fail to get anything for it, my anxiety would surely consume me.
>>16833549
I am so bad at working under pressure
>>16835165
>never sneeze just once
>sneeze upwards of 4 times in a row usually
>sometimes sneeze 10 times in a row
>arm hurts, like post-workout soreness
>>16833549
>I'm overly dependent on my mom, trying to work on it.
>I blow stuff out of proportion, also trying to work on that.
>I am a hot head, I get it from my dad, I don't think I'll ever be able to change that.
>I have to find out what I want to do in life, cause I'm fucking done with this science major.
>I need a woman to connect with, and to break a dry spell with, for fucks sake this is my top priority right now.
self loathing
self destructive tendencies
depression
anxiety
poor performance in social situations
procrastination, poor work ethic
unmotivated
unable to let things go
i sleep too much
i eat too much
i smoke too much weed
unable to put things into perspective. my most insignificant failure overshadows my greatest accomplishments
and finally, i dont even know where to begin fixing any of it
Self Doubt. I have confidence and everything but at the same time I have some little douchebag in the back of my head saying "I don't suggest doing this". So I'm constantly caught hesitating, which I dislike.
I have a trip to another state coming up for college and I was going to ask out a female friend to accompany me but I ended up pausing and not doing it. I'm going to try again next week, I would much rather do it in person than over text.
I just fucking hate hesitation.
My personal weakness is that I can't stand up for myself cause i look to much down on myself.
