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Tell us about your crush, anons.
What are they like? What do you like about them? How did you meet them? How are things going with them?
>>16816667
She's younger than me, quite tall, slim, really long brown hair, tomboy. Generally big - she's not fat at all, kind of amazonian. Quite masculine in a lot of ways (she's more practical and good at working woth tools and shit), but manages to be more of a "woman" than a girl, if that makes sense.
I love the fact that she's so smart, friendly, independent and takes no shit from anyone. We have a lot in common re: interests. She also has an adorable accent that makes me smile every time I hear it.
I'm going to ask her out tomorrow, god knows how that will go.
>>16816667
My Crush
>What are they like?
In her words, Selfish, Narcissistic, in my eyes, sweet, honest, cheerful, beautiful
>What do you like about them?
I like that she is always happy and smiling and it rubs off on me, she's like an antidepressant
>How did you meet them?
At work, I asked her out twice, no luck, hung out with her in group gatherings and I ended up in her house, fooled around twice, got put in the friendzone while she dated a guy for a 1 year, she breaks up with him and we become friends with benefits, eventually we become bf/gf then 2 years went by.
>How are things going with them?
She dumped me, said she is selfish before she left, demands space away from me, tells me she gonna call me in 2 weeks, but it's been 4 weeks. I messaged once a week to see if she is ready to talk, each time she says no I am not ready.. I asked you don't even want to be my friend? she says she doesn't know how to be a friend right now and then says if you want to be friends in the future you need to respect the fact i need space. good night anon. Crushed!. ..... I deleted her number so I am not tempted to ever call again, every time the phone rings I think it might be her.. it never is.
Oh fucking god.
It's thus dorky ass guy I work with. It started like in November around thanksgiving and it seemed like since then I had been growing like closer to him.
Well last night I asked him if he wanted to go get a drink and hang out and he was like sure. So we do that, then at his place we watch tv, he instigated me to cuddle with him, then before I left we made out.
He said he didn't know I felt this way toward him, but we're going to see a move tomorrow now too and he said he can't wait.
He was high too though when we made out oh my god I'm betting at some point today hell be like "oh fuck what did I do"
>>16816667
>Crush?
Cute girl with long brown hair and browner eyes. Every time we meet she looks embarrassed and gives me a small wave before talking to me.
>Where did we meet?
We were both part of a cooking club and we choose partners and we both had nobody we knew.
>why do I like her?
She's quiet and funny, with her constantly teasing about how big I am and I give her a ride on my shoulders.
>how's it going?
I made a valentines house of hearts and she put it on her shelf. I just wrote about how kind and sweet she is and how were best friends.
>What are they like?
An intelligent dork.
>What do you like about them?
How he keeps challenging my way of thinking.
>How did you meet them?
Online.
>How are things going with them?
He actually rejected me yesterday. Guess I'm back on the market.
>>16816705
>best friends
i call it friendzone my dear orbiter.
>>16816667
>What are they like?
Beautiful soul. He has naturally blonde hair, big blue eyes, only a few inches taller than me, strong jaw and the cutest smile.
He gives the best hugs! The kind that give you butterflies when you're walking up to give a hug as a greeting, which he always insists upon, and the goodbye hug makes my heart skip a beat.
He's kind, such a sweet guy that you can't help but let your heart melt when he smirks and a dimple shows.
>What do you like about them?
I love how he teases me, mimicking little things I say or just fucking with me while having fun conversation. When he laughs it feels real and honest, not an ounce of fakeness in him.
He loves adventure and can turn any hangout session or trip to the beach into such a memorable day. Just honestly a very special person, not only to me but everyone who comes in contact with him.
>How did you meet them?
In elementary school, he defended me once in front of the whole class when another boy and two girls were calling me fat or ugly, he barely remembers it which doesn't surprise me. He was just like that, always defending kids because he got picked on too, he just defended himself.
We didn't talk again until I was 21, regardless of living so close (within a mile) to each other, we just never came in contact. Ended up meeting on Facebook, having a few lovely conversations and then met up a few times with friends and had a few outings. He was even nicer than I had remembered.
Cont.
>>16816667
>>16816746
Cont.
>How are things going with them?
When we started getting close he ended up getting a girlfriend, I didn't mind considering I just wanted to hang out and be around positive people. Nothing had ever happened between us, we'd never talked about anything relationship wise or ever admitted we had feelings for each other and just enjoyed each others company.
We had amazing chemistry and while I was slightly disappointed I was focusing more on working out than having a relationship so we both never openly flirted either...
Anyway... so he got a girlfriend for a year and a half or two years, right in the beginning we would still chat on FB and just say stuff like we needed to blaze and hang out with all of our friends like we had been, and how I wanted to chill and meet his new girlfriend and how happy I was for him. He thanked me and said we definitely should soon, but obviously we never did. Whether that was her decision or his I'll never know. Got deleted/blocked on FB, unfollowed on Snap, unfollowed on IG and as soon as I realised I never tried bothering him again.
I respect whoevers decision it was for us to cut contact. I'd never want to be a distraction in someones relationship, let alone an annoyance.
Even though I had never met her, never sent him anything remotely innapropriate or even a suggestive emoji, just PC chatting about stupid shit every once in a while.
I still think about it, and still think about him, wish I could contact him, especially considering they broke up. Checked IG today and he had posted some cryptic message with an older picture of the two of them together driving. Really glad I didn't give in and message him about wanting to chill if they are getting back together.
He'll always be my memorable mystery guy, with the best hugs, warmest laugh and happiest smile. That'll have to be good enough for me.
Woo, didn't know I needed to get all that out.
She's a cute German girl, really hard-working and down-to-earth. She doesn't have a supermodel body, but it's just the right amount of curves.
I fucked things up with her due to being an indecisive pussy.
Eh its mostly pysical.
But shes small, kinda chubby in a cute way but not fat, has long dark hair, decent boobs, good ass, lovely smile.
Shes basically very very cute and to me cute like that is very sexy.
Personality wise I know little she seems pretty chill and cool though.
I know her older sister really well, she was in my class but shes a bitch and in contrast the sister seems cool.
Nothing will ever happen but I still want her to have my children.
>>16816705
>best friends.
>>16816667
>666
My crush is a slim woman I work with. She has short, brown hair, a curt disposition, but also caring and even loving.
I have another, bigger one in this redhead I work with (Real red hair, the dye fools nobody, sorry, ladies), she's skinny, has beautiful ivory skin. Too bad she's hella stuck up
But sometimes she reaches high tithings and you get a look at some side torso at which point I can feel a total collapse comin on.
She's funny, cute, interesting and I always have a blast when I'm with her. She plays vidya like I do and has made me want to be a better person. We met in school but we're too shy to talk to each other till recently, I'm 21 now.
We go out every once and a while and text each other all the time. I'm pretty sure she just sees me as a good friend and I'm not sure I want to risk wrecking that.
Oh well, in another life maybe.
>>16816667
She's the only thing that will make me happy, i have eveything else i want in life at the age of 20 but i feel like shit because i can't have her
I met her at work, she came here about 8 months ago and the women in my office( 80% are women) are rather mean to new commers so i kind of took her under my wing and now i can't stop thinking about her, her slender tight body, her glasses,her hair, her legs that seem to go forever, her scars on her left leg(she was in a fire when she was 8), the mole on her neck, the boyish way she runs, the way she laughs(like everything is the funniest thing ever), i smile like an idiot when i'm with her and i feel like shit when she leaves me, she's one year older than me but i don't think that's why i have no shot, it's because she has a 25 year old boyfriend with a nice car and they live together
>she surely fucked him on Valentine's day
God this was a shit Valentine's day, i'm looking for a job so i can get the fuck away from her, i can't keep torturing myself with her, i need to move on
>>16816686
Are you ugly? You sound like you have self confidece issues
>>16816718
Wanna hate screw?
Pls b in london
>>16816799
Actually I friend zoned her, (we only knew each other for a couple months, when she asked me out) but now I have feelings for her. Fuck.
>>16816705
>best friends
>>16817031
Yeah thats what I was cringing at, you never ever mentioned the F word and hope it never gets mentioned to you.
If shes interested she may start losing interest since she thinks you're not interesting.
Friendzoning a girl can work but it can also fuck it up.
You're on the clock my friend you best be making a move otherwise you will lose the chance.
Take it from someone with experienced, I friendzoned a girl I did not like, started hanging around with her and then discovered she was really cool but she had lost interest.
It's a 30 year old woman (I'm 23) from my masters class. She just broke up a 7-year relationship and now lives alone with three cats.
She is kind, shy, insecure, extremely organized and afraid to take risks or think outside of the box.
She loves making the most terrible jokes you will hear in your lifetime, tea and cats.
I'm pretty sad because I came from another continent to do this master and it's almost over.. I guess I won't be seeing her after this...
>>16817060
Then ask her out.
>>16817062
I did. Proposed a cinema. She immediately understood the meaning of the invitation and kept quiet for a few seconds, after which I said "...this weekend" and then she said "no".
Since I didn't want to invite her again the next week, I was direct: "is this a no for this week or a no?"
For which she replied "I will think about it"
Which for me is a "no". Then I never touched the subject again.
>>16817050
Yea anon I was on the receiving end of a friend zone situation so tommorow I'm gonna ask her out for dinner or a movie. I don't know how to say I want it to be more than friends though.
(She's probably still interested as she blushes all the time around me still)
>>16816667
Alright anon, here's my crush:
>
Thanks for the reminder that not only am I too ugly to attract anyone but I also have such low self esteem that I believe that no woman would ever want me seriously crushing on them as I'm fucking disgusting.
>>16816681
I believe in you, anon.
>>16817105
Try
>I like you, lets get dinner
And then kiss her good night afterwards to seal the deal.
>>16817121
You forgot bitter. You're also bitter.
Anyway, I guess it's my turn.
She's about average height, very slim build with long, curly, brown hair and light blue eyes. She used to do gymnastics, so she carries herself very well and she's flexible too :^) though I haven't really gotten to experience that yet. She's not the prettiest, I'll admit, but good looking enough for sure and something about her face just does it for me.
It'll sound like a giant cliche but I think what like most about her is her sense of humour and her laugh. We have the same sense of humour, too, which helps a lot.
I met her a few months ago at the start of a university exchange program.
As for how things are going, I'm completely lost. I don't know what she thinks about "us" or if she has feelings for me. It's possible, but I don't have anything concrete to go on. Here's hoping.
>>16817242
>Bitter
Wow nice deduction there, sherlock! You should consider investigative work as a new career field. You're very talented. I can't imagine why I feel that way!
>>16817203
Best to just be simple and direct
>>16817251
so bitter tho
>>16817354
Such a faggot, though.
>>16817376
keep chewing on those lemons
>>16817392
Keep taking that dick in your ass :)
>>16816667
She's this cute little geek girl thing with dark eyes, dark hair and a dark sense of humour. Her passion is storywriting, and I love the thought and affection she puts in the small details. I'm pretty /lit/ and she's whatever you'd call the tumblr equivalent.
Yeah, she's a tumblrina. A rare case that isn't way off the deep end. Not too generic/normal, not too womyn and zero SJW; it's the perfect balance. She can take privilege jokes and actually laugh at them.
We've shared a class for a while now with the occasional pleasantries, but only recently did we start to grow closer and see each other outside of classes.
How things are going now? No idea. We're close and saw each other daily the past week, but I can't tell whether she's interested and spaghetti or just very friendly. We're both kind of touchy and banter regularly, but whenever I make a slightly more blatant pass at her she goes quiet. She, on the other hand, has no lewd-filter around me and says seemingly interested things every once in a while too. Or that's wishful thinking. No idea either.
I did ask her out once. We went to see a movie on Valentine's Day, though it wasn't much of a date. We were both pretty hyped up for that movie, so we went together. Right off the bat she warned me that she's not into the Valentine commercialism. Her parents dropped her off and picked her up. She insisted on paying for herself to get discounts. Then the movie ended and she was gone within a few minutes. The only thing we did was watch and talk.
I want to ask her out for real and do away with the "no idea", but she's leaving on a two week-holiday tomorrow. Guess that's not happening anytime soon...
>>16817251
Consider not being a bitter cunt. That's not sarcasm, that's a legit suggestion.
Now pls gtfo the fuck out of this thread.
>>16817567
Consider chugging some bleach and doing all of us a favor :)
>Tell us about your crush, anons.
She is a lady. We work for the same company. I see her most days if I'm lucky.
>What are they like?
She is intelligent, humble, friendly, tolerant, passionate, caring, articulate, creative, musically adept, artistic, scientifically minded, inquisitive, loving, enthusiastic, thoughtful, sweet, loyal, funny, quirky, fond of history, alive in her own self, conscientious, tall (very tall!), shapely, beautiful (magnetic face, hypnotic eyes, infectious smile), she has a frightening laugh. She has a wonderful, expressive singing voice. Her speaking voice is like frozen music.
She can be disheartened, but keeps on taking care of business. Even when she's falling apart she is indestructible.
She cares too much for other people - I wish she was more selfish.
She's idealistic, which can lead to disappointment because the world really sucks, man.
>What do you like about them?
The main thing, I suppose, is her passion for life. She cares about things in a way that makes them matter to other people. That's what drew me to her. It was ages before I started to pay attention to how pretty she is, but... yeah. I like that too.
>How did you meet them?
We worked together for a while, but weren't really close. We fell out of contact. We got back in contact some time later and started spending time together. I developed a crush on her without realising it (because she is awesome) as I got to know her better.
>How are things going with them?
Alright, I think. I don't want to be more than a friend to her (personal circumstance) so I'm trying to dial the crush back a bit. I'm pretty sure she knows I love her. We still spend time together occasionally, and go out places together, but we've both been busy lately. This might help me cool off, actually, so maybe that's not such a bad thing.
I want her in my life forever. I am so lucky to know her.
Sometimes I wish she was my sister, them I could love her without any awkwardness.
>How did you meet them?
I first met her in Biology class during my sophomore year of high school where we bonded over our mutual like of Trigun and DDR. I've known her for 12 years now. We used to run in the same circles until we kind of went our separate ways; she went to a medical trade school to study Billing and Coding and moved away to finish up my undergrad (I'm on my last semester). Last time I saw her was at the wedding of a mutual friend of ours.
>What are they like?
She pretty nerdy and attractive. She kind of looks like the Alt-girl version of Audrey Hepburn. She's ambitious, intelligent, funny in a morbid, twisted kind of way. She's also very independent, having lived on her own since graduating high school.
She's also incredibly promiscuous, both with strange men but also with people within our mutual circle.(Not that it matters, but I am intimidated by her vast sexual experience in a way that I "wouldn't measure up"). I'm pretty sure I'm the only person in our mutual friends circle she hasn't dated, or at least slept with. I've also heard rumors that she's has a bad history of illicit substances, in particular, alcohol. She claims there are days, or even weeks, she does not remember at all due to blacking out. There also rumors that she may or may not be racist and this may bleed into her dating preferences. As a nerdy, chubby Hispanic dude, I stand no chance.
>>16817836
>What do you like about them?
Nerdy, ambitious, morbidly funny, attractive in that "bad girl" kind of way (tattoos, piercings, drug use, promiscuous behavior). Strong and Tough as hell, both physically and emotionally. Really laid back. Isn't really stuck up and arrogant like other women I know.
>How are things going with them?
After high school, she washed out of both community college and Navy boot camp. She moved in with her aunt a few towns over and worked retail, all the while getting stoned and racking up notches in bedposts. She then moved to some town bordering Arizona and dated some metalhead dude. She moved back to my hometown, went into trade school and got her medical trade job. She kinda stopped being a goth girl and became a metalhead. She then met some guitarist to some local band and hooked up with them.
They are now engaged to be married.
It's funny. She always told us that she was never getting married or having kids. Now she's taking her first steps to a suburban lifestyle of a married life with kids, a minivan, and conservative values. I wonder if she'll get rid of the winged chest tattoo after falling to this lifestyle. Maybe she'll keep it since she's gonna get to live the groupie lifestyle with her husband for the rest of her life. I blame myself. I never had the balls to ask her out and get rejected. I should have let her break my heart and moved on. But I didn't.
>>16817859
(cont.)
So In order to move on and give up on a lost cause, I pretty much cut her out of my life. I stopped talking to her when I first heard of the engagement. I'm talking scorched earth here: blocking her on all social apps, moved away to college, not really talking to her when I see her, pretending I she doesn't exist. I've been going through a self-improvement kick lately. I've been keeping myself busy with school, work, working out, Reading self-help books, etc. I want to get as close to my potential as humanly possible so when she sees me again, I can break her heart when she's stuck in a passionless marriage with kids she resents and several pounds larger due to her bad habits catching up to her.
Pic Related.
>>16817862
Tldr but I'll give her a solid 5/10.
>>16817569
I'm gonna drink some water instead.
>>16818087
A shame. Maybe after that you could eat a bullet fired from a large caliber handgun?
>>16816667
Her name is Asuka she's gonna be mine
>>16818100
I think I'll eat some yogourt when I get up tomorrow
>>16818183
Is that what your head is going to look like after that handcannon is finished with it: pink yogurt?
>>16818139
Idk how, seeing that she's dead
>>16818188
I assume it'd look more like raspberry pie filling.
Anyway, my point in responding like this is no one gives a shit about how much of an edgy, bitter son of a bitch you are. This is why no one likes you. Kindly achieve your destiny by becoming an hero
>>16818207
She's not dead tho
>>16818188
>>16818219
Naw, the level of destruction to your head will be of such huge magnitude that your brain material will liquefy into a pink creamy paste much like yogurt.
Perhaps if you weren't so busy sucking down schlongs you'd have better advice than "ur bitter lol". But, you aren't. So if you won't drink bleach or blast your head off then I guess all that's left is suck as many dicks as you can until you asphyxiate on one of them. At least you'd die doing what you love!
>>16816999
I think I am.
But today at work went fine and he didn't act weird or anything toward me, and wasn't like "uhhh yeah lets not do that again"
So I guess that's a positive.
>>16816667
My boyfriend of going on 6 years is an extremely handsome pinoy with the cheekbones of a viking lord and soft, but big brown eyes that kill me with a glance.
He's so funny and talkative, but when he knows he's on the spot, he's extremely shy and it's the cutest thing. When he's drunk his face gets all asian-flushed and he tells me how pretty I am.
When he puts his arm around my waist I feel like my insides have melted into mush and my face gets all hot. His relaxed voice has the same effect on me. Some moments of things he has said occasionally echo in my brain and I get chills when I remember them. .
He always smells good and always seems to know what to say at the right time. He karaokes songs but improvises his own lyrics and makes them about me or my butt. Especially old blink 182 songs even though he would never admit to anyone else that he listens to them.
He raves on about me to our mutual friends like I don't know but they tell me about how much he talks about me when he's not around. Then he feels embarrassed when I find out.
He works hard and is ambitious and I love to praise him on all his efforts because I know he will be successful once we're out of uni. He's never opened up to anyone much, but I am proud to have earned the title of his personal emotional nurse/rock.
I try really hard to be the caring, beautiful, crafty, home-cooking, supportive girlfriend I've always dreamed of being to a deserving man. Because this dude is a keeper and he deserves me at my best because he's always his best for me too.
I have never cared this much for a male human being aside from family in my life. I want and wish the best for him all the time. Even if the relationship goes sour somewhere along the way, I know I'd be hurt, but these years have been the best of my life. I have never had wandering eyes or second guessed anything about him.
um he is a small guy (smaller than me plz dont laugh) he has dimples and messy hair??? very cute. he stutters a lot but he is very talented and a big nerd. i like that he is like a ray of sunshine in the dark world or something, he also jokes a lot with me. i fucked up and told him he was a great friend (he is tho) so now i´m going to try and fix that up.
i noticed him because he stares at me pretty much all the time when he is around so i started making bad puns with the hope he might go away but he ended up making worse jokes and weLL here we are.
A tall guy who has one of the friendliest personality I've ever met, always beaming with positivity. I introduced myself to him at work out of friendliness. Was not attracted to him at all first, but the more he talked to me and showed more obvious interest, the more I did too.
He's gone now but I hope we'll meet again. Pretty sure he has a girlfriend and that I'm just his 'type'; liking me out of convenience of being there. Real shame, really good guy and cute to boot.
What I loved most about him is the way he smiled whenever we met or talk, a wide toothy smile with daydreamy eyes. Haha, I really did crush on him didn't I?
>What are they like?
Funniest girl I've ever met. She can be a little weird sometimes but I dig it a lot.
Seriously a beautiful girl and she dresses amazing.
>What do you like about them?
How she isn't shy and she acts herself everywhere. Plus everything I said above.
>How did you meet them?
College
>How are things going with them?
Apparently she digs me but I don't know. She still has a bf. I'm very confused right now. Kinda sucks.
This felt really good to write. Everyone keep your heads up...things work out. Not always how you want them to, but eventually. things get better.
>>16816667
Skinny girl, small stature, gauges, and tattoos, likes video games, knows about dnd and 40k. I like her because I have sleeves and gauged ears as well, like the same stuff as her, she's pretty funny and always giving me compliments saying I'm cute, pretty eyes, etc.. Met her at work, she's a coworker. Haven't really told her how I felt or anything, she has a boyfriend so I don't try to work my way in.
But man If she didint...
She's skinny, French, too young for me, still in college! She works in the same store. She might be a lesbian; both I and a couple of my friends have gotten that vibe, but there is no evidence. But I tell myself that it's true because she's too young for me and I don't want to shit where I eat or whatever. Nevertheless, she is unbelievable looking and super-cool so I'm still crushin'.
>>16819471
She looks basically exactly like Lea Seydoux, ugh life is hard
>>16818240
omg u r rite i will go jumps in front of trqin now
heer i go
solat i am die
Tfw you basically write an essay answering OP's questions, then don't post it because feelsrealbadman.jpg and none of it matters anymore.
>What are they like?
Outgoing, but still very laid back. Intelligent, but still goofy. Friendly, caring, seems to be daydreaming all day
He's tall, sorta /fit/ and I actually don't know what his eye colour is despite me staring at him all the time.. weird.. but they shine very bright.
>What do you like about them?
How his eyes twinkle when he smiles. His smile. I like how he somehow tries to befriend everyone and generally make people feel good about themselves. He reminds me of a adorable little puppy with his enthusiasm.
I still feel like there is something deeper hidden about him tho
>How did you meet them?
College/University
>How are things going with them?
He has a gf. That's why I don't have any idea how to behave around him. He always starts to grin whenever he sees me but I don't know if it is just him being friendly and wanting to become friends. It's really weird and confusing..
>>16816667
>Crush
blond girl from sports club
>What are they like?
funny, cute, likes to party, but drinks a lot
>What do you like about them?
shes damn beautiful, her laugh
>How did you meet them?
sports club
>How are things going with them?
ended up in bed with her after a party, asked her out a few times, didnt say no, but I can tell that she is not comfortable with dating me
what do
>>16819500
I have no idea who this is but God help the guys who fall for her… she scares me. Dead-eyed bitch-face.
As of last night I think I have a new crush. This guy's been a little tiny blip on my radar for a while… but the other night we exchanged a *look* and now I'm on his tip. He's a bartender/club owner. He has brown hair and is average height, totally my type. Beard of course boo but it's his eyes when he looks at me. He has an elegance about him and a calm authority. Once I was talking to some dufus and he came right up in the middle and told the guy he needed to pay up on his $90 tab. His voice is soft and low. It's his eyes tho, His eyes are incredibly soft. He is sexy.
The best thing is this guy is better than the guy I'm obsessed with that I need to forget about. I dont' want this guy, I just want to crush on him, you know? I dont' want anything to happen because when that does it tends to be a disaster.
>>16817121
Same senpai desu baka
>>16820471
>wanting to become friends
he is a man, remember?!
>>16817121
>kek
Also you do realise that you can have a crush on someone without them knowing and/or reciprocating, right?
>>16820575
I mean, yeah, and I see what you are trying to imply, but is it really that uncommon for guys to legitimately wanting to befriend with the opposite gender?
He has a gf after all.
I met her at the shop I'm working at. She frequently visits as a customer with her best friend. I managed to get her facebook profile and started talking with her. She's younger than me, has a beautiful smile, long black hair, nice body. She hardly makes any friends as she can't trust or is a bit afraid of people for various reasons. So I felt like in heaven when she said that for some reason she can trust me from the bottom of her heart (after like 8 months). I also like the fact the we have a ton od things we are interested in. A person that you can never be bored with and that is the main reason I have a crush on her.
She is on a trip with her family and best friend, yesterday she texted me that she is tired that her friend keeps telling her that she should hook up with me. And yeah, that's the moment I knew that I'm fucked. We had a talk and she said she wants me as a close friend... Main problem is that she loves guys with blue eyes and blond hair. Fuck my life, I've brown hair and brown eyes... I also think that it's because I'm skinny (179cm and 61 kg). So yeah, because it was yesterday I don't know what should I do... I can try to become fit, gain weigth, even if she will still reject me at least I'll look a bit better...
>>16820633
Diff anon, but that's just a bullshit meme, of course you can be friends with the opposite sex.
When I was in highschool the majority of my friends were guys, and all but one (who was my best friend before I later went on to date him, highschool sweethearts) of them never actually showed any sign of romantic/sexual interest. I was just 'one of the guys' and we had heaps of fun together.
Those guys (actually reconnected recently with one of them) stayed my friends all the way until I left school, except my best friend of 7 years who I still regularly see.
My other best friend of 5 years is also a guy, he's basically my platonic soulmate.
So yes, you can definitely be friends with the opposite sex.
>What is she like?
She's this kurdish beauty with curly black hair, perfect body (in my opinion at least) and a smile to die for. She's ambitious, bit immature in some ways, funny, weird, always happy and seemingly always happy to see me.
>What do you like about her?
She's smart, funny and quite up-front (by that I mean not "toying with people" if that makes any sense). I love making her laugh and smile, she's a very caring person (When she rejected me she was (according to my current best friend who was her best friend at highschool) worried that she'd wounded me seriously and stuff :/ ).
>How did we meet?
In the beginning we were actually classmates in gradeschool going up to 3rd grade elementary where I switched schools due to bullying. Funny thing is that where I recall not getting along with her and fighting with her (as kids do) she remembers me being kind and all :P
8 years later I bump into her in highschool where she for some reason recognized me (I only recognized her since her smile hadn't changed at all), and after a year of smalltalk in the hallways I realised that I had feelings for her, worked up courage to ask her out, and got rejected since she didn't want a relationship while studying ;_;
>How are things going with her?
That rejection was a little more than 3 years ago now, but for some reason I cannot put her behind me completely, even though I don't lose sleep over her anymore.
I bumped into her a few weeks ago for the first time in maybe 5-6 months. We hugged, talked for a while and went our separate ways, and I spent the following two or three days thinking of nothing but her :/
I know, deep down, that we're not ever gonna get together, but a part of me still want to believe there's a chance. She's the first woman I ever seriously fell in love with and cared for, so that's probably why. Just wish we had more of a regular contact, cause I'd rather be friends with her than lose her completely :/
>>16820601
Yes. I also think that it's pointless and retarded to do so. Crushing on someone while knowing that you will never express your feelings is wasted emotional energy. If I'm going to crush on someone it's going to be someone who I know might actually want me to be crushing on them. I made that mistake a couple times by crushing on girls far far far out of my league and it just ends in pain for me and complete indifference to them. Fuck. That.
He's a really cute nerd who I adore to bits and pieces. He has the most precious laugh I have ever heard. His voice is really pleasant to listen to, especially when he's tired; it makes me want to go hold him as he falls asleep or something. Whenever we get time together it's like all the negativity in the world is non-existent. We also have quite a bit in common and he's someone I can actually have a good conversation with.
I posted something like this a few weeks ago in one of these crush generals. I finally had the guts to tell him my feelings on Valentines day and we're now a couple. There is hope for all of us, be strong and good luck to you anons. I hope you all find happiness like I have.
>>16816667
Same age, shorter by a head, or i'm just a lot taller than everyone else: 6'4". Gorgeous, clever, and can bring a smile to anyone's face if she wants. Very talkative, a 'bit' narcissistic, and knows it, plus how to use it to be assertive. Also obvious she is hiding a lot of what she feels: seen her breaking down in classes a couple of times.
What do I like?
I don't know, I just got over a situation where my best friend went out, and still is going out with previous girl I liked. I was a mess and these new emotions came about to help me get over it all i guess. Plus i have liked her for the most part. Just generally feel very happy to converse and be with them.
Met? Damn.
Went to same primary school (britfag here) but never really knew each other. Different secondary schools, then come back together for two years in college doing the same course. We share some classes together and same group of friends basically, and I fell for her, hard.
How are things going?
Difficult ex on her part that's also in college. that's tricky to get around, but best friend is supporting on her side. I don't know if I have a chance but I have nothing to lose and best friend is willing to help since he fucked me over last time. :p
Going to ask asap, but just need her alone really to do that. Hopefully this next week will hold the golden opportunity.
She sometimes answers my snaps, but after three snaps in a row she doesn't. I'm giving up for the day. Fuck guys why do I always fuck it up with this chick
>>16816667
i dont have any. im not 12 anymore...
>>16821619
Okay.
It's nice to hear about your crushes, anons. It's a nice break from the negativity.
>What are they like?
She's a girly girl and loves cartoons, she's about a year younger than me, has long black hair that she usually wears in a ponytail. She's kind of a mix of extrovert and introvert.
>What do you like about them?
How sweet she is and she always seems happy, and no matter how bad my day is going, whenever I see her, it makes my day better.
She's also pretty funny and draws a lot of cute art.
>How did you meet them?
Work
>How are things going with them?
We hang out together almost everyday at Lunch. We usually talk, watch cartoons and sometimes draw stuff together. Pretty relaxing.
>What are they like?
Manipulative, narcissistic, selfish, lacks empathy, emotionally abusive, loves to lie, loves to gaslight, doesn't ever feel remorse or guilt, loves to appear confident and outgoing yet is very insecure and immature/reckless, can't ever own up to their actions/mistakes, lies and uses people for sex, is a cheater and will have sex with anything with 2 legs and a heartbeat, preys on emotionally vulnerable people, is an alcoholic, has substance abuse issues, never matches their actions to their words, blows all their money gambling and on alcohol and drugs, refuses to acknowledge or admit their own mistakes, purposefully drives you to suicide, is aggressive and has anger issues, doesn't care about anyone but themselves.
>What do you like about them?
I looked at this question for at least 5 minutes before concluding that I have no clue why I still have feelings for them. I legitimately do not know anymore.
>How did you meet them?
Through friends and college. They were in one of my classes a couple of years ago and some of my friends knew them. They asked me out one day after class and I haven't been the same since.
Of course, everything was picture perfect at the start, I miss that. I miss who I fell in love with. But they're long gone.
>How are things going with them?
I don't know.
Sometimes I want out because they make me want to die with how badly they treat me, yet I still love them and have a miniscule amount of hope they love me back. We live together and I keep thinking deep down they love me, deep down they're a good person and they must love me or they wouldn't keep coming back to me.
>What are they like?
He's so pessimistic and has such a dark humor, he makes me laugh so much and he's really easy to talk to.
>what do you like about them?
other than the fact that he's easy to speak with, he and I mesh so well together, we're very different but also similar in bigger matters.
>how did you meet them?
school
>How are things going wit them?
We see each other at the least 2 times a week, and we text each other all day every day.
recently though, I found out that he prefers looks over personality, and I myself am not cute and little. so i'm in a wee bit of a trough at the current moment.
>crush
What the fuck? Are we in middle school or something? I thought 4chan was 18+..
>What are they like?
A really dumb boy who has pretty blue eyes and hair longer than mine. He's a big push-over and sometimes he's dorky to the extent of embarrassing instead of endearing. Definitely was a drama kid in high school but he mellowed out in college.
>What do you like about them?
He's sweet and ticklish and fucking obtuse. He watched too much shounen as a kid and it's made him into the same stupid, wide-eyed kid that just wants to be a positive influence, even though it means that sometimes he's a bit presumptuous in thinking he knows what's best for people. Sometimes it's really frustrating but it's refreshing to hang around someone who's seemingly too stupid to have an agenda. He's also submissive in bed and his kinks are so apparent that it's easy to tease him.
>How did you meet?
Art school. We were both fresh off break-up's freshman year and it just kind of worked out that we wound up fooling around. He broke it off and didn't give me a good reason for the longest time. I think he broke it off because he wanted to enjoy college and honestly, in hindsight, I was glad I got to do the same. We're seniors now and were close friends the whole time.
>How's it going with them?
Uh, I guess this is where it gets weird. I slept over in bed with him on Valentine's Day and he hinted at wanting kissu. I've been low-key holding a torch for him for a while, and having been whacked in the face with it a few times, I was wary because this seemed too good to be true. I tried to confirm and then give him an out so that maybe his brain would catch up with what he was saying but he didn't take it. We ended up canoodling and stalled around second base. I didn't push for further because he seemed so shy about the whole thing. When I asked him if he wanted to get off, he couldn't give me a straight answer so I suggested we go to sleep and he agreed to that. I'm optimistic but I don't think we're in the clear yet.
>>16823192
A crush is literally a strong infatuation with someone, idiot.
If you don't have crushes then perhaps you can't feel infatuation or love, or you just haven't someone who you feel that way for yet.
>>16823290
Haven't found someone*
>>16820354
Hey man, the point of this is to have an outlet to talk about how someone really makes you stupid and happy.
If your crush doesn't make you happy, you need to assess why. Crushes should give you tingles, not dread.
No homo.
the moment you crush said she is feeling incomplete.
what am I suppose to do? I need advice on what to tell her
>>16816667
>What are they like?
He looks like a bird. Physically unattractive but fucking funny as hell and incredibly smart. He's seven years older than me. He's supportive, kind, outgoing, and very friendly. Probably the most extroverted yet hardcore nerd I've ever met. Usually very cheerful, which makes him fun to be around.
What do you like about them?
His sense of humor, his intelligence, his smile which is bright and incredibly happy, and we have a lot in common. I'm not sure why we know the same movie and pop culture references given the age difference, but we do. Maybe I just watch too much TV. We make each other laugh easily and I've never met someone like him before who I get along with so...naturally. I never thought I'd meet anyone like that.
How did you meet them?
Same university.
How are things going with them?
My friend C, who is usually oblivious to most things and has no idea I have a crush on this guy, told me she is convinced he as a thing for me after the last time we ran into him (a couple days ago?) and I have noticed he certainly gravitates towards me when we're standing in a group for a conversation. But I assume that's just because we banter easily. He probably appreciates the fact someone actually gets his jokes/references and might not even like me given that he only ever sees my good side. Anyway, I can hardly function right now because my depression has spun out of control worse than it has in the past few years, so I don't really believe I could handle a relationship even if he was interested.
Does anyone have advice? I don't want to botch anything because of where my depression is at right now. Is it necessary to get my own life shit in order before pursuing a relationship? I don't have any experience with "real" relationships, and now that I'm in my mid twenties and my friends are getting married and shit, I can't tell if I should be looking for something serious too.
>>16823351
>he looks like a bird
Kek
Lost my shit omfg
>>16823298
They don't make me feel dread, but they do make me feel like shit a lot of the time. They used to make me feel happy, and still sometimes do, but they'll never feel the same way I feel about them. They apparently did, but I'm sure they don't anymore. I mean nothing to them now anyway.
Thanks though, I hope your crush returns your feels and makes you happy.
I have a crush on BJ Blazcowicz
>>16823038
>I keep thinking deep down they love me, deep down they're a good person and they must love me or they wouldn't keep coming back to me.
Holy fuck dude, are you me?
I'm sorry your person is a piece of shit, you deserve netter tbqh.
>>16823400
Deserve better* I'm on my phone kek
>>16823388
He seriously does. If I wasn't so chickenshit (pun intended) I would show you a picture, because every person I said this comparison to has realized it immediately and can't unsee it.
It's awkward having a really strong crush on someone with an objectively weird and unattractive face. It means I must actually really like him if I can get past that part, which pisses me off. I hate having feelings for people.
>>16819408
Her initials?
>>16823314
You don't tell her anything; you listen, my nigga
>>16823290
Adults don't "crush". That's preteen girl shit. Adults who have feelings for someone let them know and either get together or move on. You all need to seriously grow up.
>>16823685
Hahahahhahahahahahahaha you're a faggot.
>>16816667
>Tell us about your crush, anons.
Absolute silver fox. Sharp dresser. He just likes to have a good time. Cut and dry.
>What do you like about them?
His over-confidence, suave ability, smile, the fact that he doesn't cater to visceral satisfaction, his vocabulary, his etiquette, work ethic. And, he actively listens. He's also into everything I'm into but in other ways, we're polar opposites.
>How did you meet them?
I was going through a messy break-up and he white-knighted and gave my feelings realistic validation. Kind of put a lot of things in perspective for me.
>How are things going with them?
Not good. Just found out he's got a family. I suspected it anyway, that's the trouble with being into older guys, but it still really hurt this time. I had been planning on moving for some time but a small part of me was hoping we'd end up together and be a power-couple.
Is it okay to have two crushes?
>>16823038
Oh look you described my ex.
>>16823685
Nah man, I think you need to grow up. It's only a term, and there's no reason to avoid a term just because you've deemed it "childish". There isn't always a rigid distinction and the sooner you let go of that the better off you'll be.
>>16817186
Fucked up; tried to ask her, didn't really do it out right, she got shy, not a negative reaction, probably a No in waiting but I have to ask her via text now or work something else out. I'm a stupid, stupid motherfucker.
Boys, have a definite plan, ask her out properly and make it obvious. It may feel hard but just fucking do it
>>16823804
>tfw I've been spending time with her but we've never discussed it as dating
>she's still often the one to initiate it
I don't know what to feel.
>>16823834
Fucking discuss it as dating, don't be a stupid fuck like me
>>16823939
I'm going to, I just haven't yet. Hope things work out for you, anon.
This girl I met, she used to be a random girl but after one day I suddenly see her as being extremely ridiculously pretty. Everything she does is sexy, hell even when a bird pooped on her was hot. I don't know what makes her so special and why I'm obsessed with her. We have a bit of stuff in common. I get quite stupid when I'm near her, my mind goes blank. I'm terrified of her rejecting me and the idea of her being with someone else.
We are sort of friends but not too close. Our mutual friends always tease her about how they say she likes other guys, which hurts me a bit. I dont think anyone knows I like her but she may have noticed.
I'm extremely and I mean extremely sensitive to everything she does. After every time I meet her I spend hours and days thinking about every time she smiled, every move she made, every time she looked or didn't look at me, every word she said or I said to her, analizing everything for clues to whether she likes me or not.
People will tell me it's not love but I really don't care, I want her and that's it.
I once asked her out but she said "mmm no i don't know", Idk if it's because she can't or doesn't want to. I asked her to dance at two parties but she always made excuses.
Every time she does something nice to me I feel like I'm high but when it's the opposite I feel like I'm dying. My whole life revolves around her. I think about her 24/7.
She's average height, skinny, she dresses average though she has trouble combining colors (still looks great on her), she has black hair but she used to dye her bangs. She shares my political and social views on stuff. She's a clear feminist. Her face is like mathematically perfect. She's sometimes shy and sometimes not. She's very independent.
That feeling when your crush lives far away. Sucks.
>>16816686
Well funny story.
We're pretty much fuck buddies now.
I'm okay with this.
>>16823768
Lol same here anon, I feel you fa.m
I havent had a real crush in years now. I'm not really sure what's going on, and I feel like asking out people just because I find them moderately cute is a bad idea.
i am smitten
im the real thing
>>16816667
>What are they like? What do you like about them? How did you meet them? How are things going with them?
i like about her (me male) that she is funny, kind, nice, smart and very cool and also pretty even though she rarely shows it.
we have met plenty of times throughout our lives actually:
we used to rarely spent time when we were kids as our parents know each other though we forgot about it. later i by chance met her at parties because her best friend from elemtary school is friends with class mates of mine. also she was the flat mate of a former bass player of an ex band.
things are not going well id say. She is VERY hard to read, im usually good at reading women but she gives me trouble maybe because she just isnt into me (chances are very high sadly). But i never have seen her flirt with anyone and she is very reserved in her body language (never seen her give anyone a friendly touch for example) and so i put my hope on her just being very reserved.
>>16825923
Tfw you follow these kind of threads and hope that he'll post about you, but he never does because you're nothing to him
>>16816667
kek i put it all out there tonight and got btfo very well
she's either a 10/10 trickster or i just may have triggered a massive bout of ptsd
>What are they like?
He's a sweet guy, kinda goofy, and a huge literature nerd (I tease him about this a lot). He's always giving me book recommendations, which I actually really appreciate because I'm trying to be more open-minded about what I read. He's 6'4" so he's a full foot taller than me and I have to tilt my head up to look at him in the eyes.
>What do you like about them?
I love that we have so much in common and share the same humor so I'm not afraid to share my darker jokes with him. I also enjoy his passion; sometimes he gets started on a rant about something and I just like to let him ramble. He has a very lovely voice.. it's so calming. It's very difficult for me to open up to people, but it only took one shift of working with him to make me feel completely at ease. We can spend hours just talking about anything. No struggles for words, no awkward lulls in conversations.
He's also very thoughtful. Sometimes he wanders off to pull something off the bookshelf for me to read. He apparently bakes a lot and sometimes brings stuff in for the staff. His cookies are AMAZING.
>How did you meet them?
I work at a library, and he's one of the 'on call' people that we have cover gaps in the shifts. I first met him when we worked the evening shift one night together. I always look forward to the days where I can see him, although getting caught up in a conversation means that I don't get any work done.
>How are things going with them?
hahahahaha... well he's married so it's not going at all!! I'm trying to distance myself but it's so hard to do.
He was this huge goofy nerd with really curly hair. He was my best friend's roommate when I was on exchange so I saw him pretty often.
He always tried to act cool, but I liked it best when he let the act slip.
He tried to come off as aloof, but he did a lot for people and was always trying to help out.
My best friend hated him though, and I think that's what held me back.
As for how things are going, well it isn't. I'm back home in my home country now and we talk once every few months. I dunno if it's just his English, but the conversation dies on his end a lot and it's all mostly "hey how's it going" or talking about shitty movies.
But yeah, I'm mostly over him. I just thought it was worth mentioning because it was my first ever "crush" so to speak.
>>16826309
Tfw I know that feel all too well.
If he thinks you're nothing to him then you deserve better anyway, anon.
>>16826309
>he never does because you're nothing to him
Have you actually taken the initiative? If so, why havent you just cut contact?
>>16826712
I really can't be fucked explaining the sitch. It's a very unique situation that I'd really rather avoid talking about.
Just trust me on this, I'm nothing to him.
I know I'll probably never cut contact with him because I'm always stupidly hopeful that he'll come back to me, and that all of it wasn't just lies.
Plus, we're not like that.
>>16826396
>He's 6'4"
Fucking of course
>What are they like?
She's just beautiful in everything she does. Sounds so cheesy, I know. She's this confusing mix of adorable and sexy, unyeildingly kind but so sarcastic she could make a grown man cry. She has medium length brown hair, big brown eyes that crinkle when she smiles... She's really so sad inside, but she just wants to make people happy.
>What do you like about them?
Her positivity. How her entire face lights up when she smiles. Her ridiculously soft skin. Her laugh, where if she laughs hard enough it goes full chipmunk mode and she literally starts sobbing from laughing. Her sweet, quiet little voice. How physical she was, even if it was just in a friendly way (a hug and a kiss on the cheek when arriving/leaving, absent-mindedly stroking my hands and arms when we'd be reading or watching TV). Her initiative is what makes me like her the most; I've never met a 19 year old who was so independent, kind hearted, and smart before.
>How did you meet?
Online at first. She'd just started going to the same uni I graduated from. We had coffee so I could give her friendly advice; a one time coffee session turned into a friendship. We hung out almost daily for a year until I finally gave up looking for work there and moved. She's so wonderful, she pulled me in without even trying.
>How are things going?
Well, she had a bf when we met, and they're still a thing. We Skype as often as time allows and she tells me her fears about pursuing her career and how she's not sure that she can do it. I've given up hope of a relationship (we have an age gap and I'm in an entirely different province) but I love her beyond words. She's going to achieve so much and it makes me so happy. I'm lucky to know her at all.
>>16824434
I know that feel, anon. The nights where I can't chat with her or see her face are almost depressing.
I was crushing on this girl I found from a cute/funny youtube video she made.
Took me almost a year to talk to her, and she seems chill as fuck, but very weird.
She has a boyfriend that she cheats on and doesn't seem very interested in me. We used to text daily and now we don't at all.
Stressing about it isn't worth it, I'm going to look elsewhere.
So I haven't spoken to her in a week because she was away, but she just got back yesterday. If I ask her to do something, would that come off as needy? Should I wait and see if she contacts me? Pls advise
gonna talk to my crush on FB
any advice? please teach me on how to be a good conversationalist. it's killing me. conversing is like trying to cut the red wire. fuck.
>>16827296
Go ahead and talk to her dude, what have you got to lose? She'll probably think it's nice of you to message her given that she's just gotten back, I know I'd appreciate it.
>>16827326
Just relax and be yourself. I know it's a bit of a cliché at this point, but it's true. They don't like you for you then that's just it, but obviously don't go full spaghetti with autism sauce the first time you talk to them.
>>16827332
You're probably right, I'm just always afraid I'm being annoying and I really don't want to fuck this up.
>>16827375
Don't be. Fucking find your balls and do it. I was 100% exactly like you, worried about fucking up and stressing out and guess what? I fucked up, I fucked up badly and now I think it's completely ruined. I feel so terrible. Be confident - not because you want to come across like a cocky douche, but so you can just hold your shit together and actually do what you need to do. Don't be like me. You have nothing to lose
>>16827379
Alright, currently finding balls.
Anyone else like me who lurks these threads once in a while, hoping yo find, even if very vague, a short description of you? It's sad, I know, but still good to see some people are successful.
As for my crush: I have no strong feelings for anyone right now, but this woman I met twice has a lovely voice I'd like to hear again. I only know how to meet her at work, so I don't want to try starting a conversation for that'll disrupt her work time/distract her from her job.
Will keep it secret for now and probably make up some questions in order to hear her sweet voice again and again. Man, she'll find me either creepy or very dumb.
Curvy, hourglass, blonde, shortish hair, amazing body and beautiful face
oh ad she's my gf :^)
Last weekend we fucked 9 times.
They're not real
>>16817862
Sounds like my female friend. We've known each other 10 years, she's a bad girl, I'm like the opposite, etc.
I never acted because she'd be a bad girlfriend for me. Shes slept around the entire time I've known her and has no self esteem. She's neurotic, been a drug dealer, cheated repeatedly. She has no direction in her life and repeatedly makes poor decisions with just about everything.
As a friend though she's been good to me. I can trust her. She's helped me through break ups. Truth be told, we became friends in the first place because I was chasing another girl and this female friend wanted to hang out with me so badly. Going out with her was practice for me, and we clicked. We have a similar sense of humor. She's asked me multiple times what I'd do if she chased me, what we are, but I've never acted on any of it.
I ultimately want a girl similar to her.
Blonde. 6'2" and beautiful. In terms of character, attitude and intelligence she is what I would consider to be perfection.
I ache for her even though I know we could never be together.
Sucks, man.
This is going to take forever to undo. Curse you, weak self, for falling for her!
She's kind and generous and I love her smile and laugh. I think she likes me too but I'm not completely sure, she might just be acting friendly. I'm too scared to make a move because I'm afraid of making her feel uncomfortable. I just want her to be happy.
>>16827379
>>16827384
So I texted her, and she answered back, and then I answered back as well to get a conversation going.
That was 5.5 hours ago. I really wish she'd get better at answering.
p.s. rate my gondolas, it's what I've been doing while waiting for her to get back.
She's a thick black chick with boobs and ass for days. She's a total bitch, music snob, band geek. She's an argumentative, feminazi, drug dealing little asswipe. She dresses like a black Lady-Gaga, and I know my racist and conservative 'rents would approve. And she's younger. We met in highschool S.S class. Ugh, but I wanna fuck her so hard.
Sunlight
In the morning
When the streets are grey-cold
Wraps me up in its narrow beams and reminds me that I am alive
I know that you are in this city
I can feel your presence in my heart as it beats
But are you awake? Are you travelling? Will we pass each other where our routes intersect?
Maybe you are still home, sleeping in your empty bed. Maybe you woke early this morning and made your journey in the dark.
I watch for you, in case coincidence delivers you to me.
A hundred years pass.
Each day a year long in itself.
Wild animals eat me and grow old and die with my bones still inside them.
But eventually, without any fanfare, you are there.
You have your hair in a bun today.
Glory. Glory.
Your long-limbed meander through the thick air is hypnotic and I fight to close my slack jaw.
One word follows another like a waterfall of precious stones from your restless lips. Splashing and jumping and filling the air to bursting point with your voice: rounded and vibrant and so obviously smiling. One precious laugh stabs like a spear and catches me full in the heart.
My poor, restless, wounded heart. It welcomes your spear. Now, I know that you are nearby. Now I have seen you, that first glimpse of the day, now everything will work out alright. The world revolves around you and I am dizzy from the spin. Dizzy from looking into your eyes.
It doesn't matter what happens next. It doesn't matter whether we live or die.
You are beautiful and you are alive right now. Past and future are illusion. Your beauty pins the Now. Your beauty creates us all.
Goddess.
I know that we will slip into the cracks of the mundane, walking clumsily through the rest of the day. But even as the sun decays and evening takes hold, the echo of this first glimpse of you will still play in me. A clear note struck on a bell, a call to attention. The best part of every day.
I love you like I love life.
I love you like the morning sunlight.
Qt Brazilian girl at work.
She's married though.
She's also just being friendly, she's like that with everyone. I'm not gonna be dumb enough to get my hopes up, I like like seeing and speaking to her.
>>16816667
She's very soft spoken and sweet. She makes an effort to appear feminine and cute. She's involved in the student association for her major. We had two classes together last semester and she expressed interest in me.
I fucked it up though because I'm an autist who drags things out and is generally awkward about it. we never got to date. She doesn't hate me but she's just not interested anymore I guess.
It's been months; I still think about her constantly and feel totally devastated.
>>16816667
This thread made me realise that I don't have a crush on the girl that I thought I had a crush on and that I talk to her out of habit and because occasionally helping someone makes me feel good about myself.
Thanks for helping me slip out from under these metaphorical chains.
I went and did my tax shit just a few days ago, and my parents came in just as I was leaving. My sister was out in the parking lot, so I went over there to her car and we began to wander around the parking lot going into various shops.
She was texting our parents and they arranged a big family dinner, so me and my sister went into the grocery store.
We were wasting time in the store, being loud assholes. I grabbed some kettle cooked chips and some other stuff, all the while I kept seeing this sot of skinny red haired girl watching me like a hawk. When we finally picked up all the stuff we wanted, that same girl was at the register. I walked up to her and put my stuff on the counter and said hello. Her face immediately turned bright red, she got fidgety, giggled and turned away. Ripped my heart out in an instant. I got a phone call from my folks just as I was leaving, so I couldn't get her number or anything. All I got was her first name.
I didn't think love at first sight could actually, in fact, real. The real shame is; I can't find her on Jewbook.
>mfw
>>16816667
She's french, met her in a club as she's a friend of my friend.
She's funny, makes me laugh and also cute.
I know she likes me also but i never get the courage to message her
(I have her on facebook), have already messaged her through it but i was drunk
at the time..
>>16828957
RE: Not that sure she likes me apart from some blowing kisses emojis on facebook,
also i'm quite attractive so I don't know if she's interested in more than just that
if anyone can understand my rationale.
>>16816667
Well, my crush is really sweet. I love them so much, especially the way they smell. I met my crush in the gas station down the road.
>>16828866
This is wonderful, did you right this or quote it?!
I never even knew her that well, but I asked her out last year, got rejected, and still haven't gotten over it.
Surely this is unnatural? I never talk to her, avoid her, but on the rare occasions I catch sight of her I feel so bad it ruins my day. I can't enjoy being with other women because it makes me think of her. Feelsbadman
>>16828866
This is beautiful, you're a talented writer.
I'd give anything to have someone think this about me. I hope your person knows how you feel, you should send this to them/let them read it anon.
crush was this blonde girl who played the violoncello and was shy and pretty and i miss her a lot
Her name is Jackie. She's really funny and awesome to be around. She's blonde and super cute and pretty. We met in Performing Arts class. She doesn't know I exist.
I have a crush on a gay black man, but I'm not sure what appeals to me more, the fact that we have internet chemistry or the fact that it would really piss off my dad if we started dating.
>>16829941
i- what?
>>16829950
My dad is a racist homophobe and he would really hate it if I moved several hundred miles away to Chicago to date my gay black friend.
I am pretty sure there is no way in Hell I'm doing that, but that doesn't make it any less appealing.
>>16829956
Corey?
>>16829979
Lmao, no.
>>16829956
wait so are you gay and he doesn't know
>>16829989
I'm bisexual and my dad has no idea.
He's an abusive, racist homophobe so if anything I probably want to piss him off.
>>16829994
>Racist
Sounds like he prioritizes facts over feelings anon
>>16816667
>What are they like?
she is very gorgeous and an introvert.
>What do you like about them?
She has a very down to earth personality
>How did you meet them?
at work
>How are things going with them?
no I idea hopefully she is doing good
>>16823038
wow women have shit taste in men
>>16830121
You're fucking telling me mate.
>>16817186
She found out I really liked her, was apparently like "Oh, oh hell, okay" and contacted me about it. I asked her out, she wants time to think.
>>16829513
I wrote this. This is the kind of thoughts I have churning in my head all the time, recently. I may be slightly obsessed with this woman. Obsessed in a "first thought in the morning, last thought at night" kind of way.
>>16829885
Hahaha. Oh, no no no. This crush cannot ever work out. Showing her the mess inside me wouldn't be helpful.
This was me too:
>>16817823
My attempts to dial back the obsessive behaviour are going just fine, thank you - until I don't see her for a few days, then I start falling apart again.
This isn't healthy, I know. But things will work out ok eventually.
>What are they like?
amazing, 10/10 person, always there for me
>What do you like about them?
Similar interests, can talk to him about literally anything, never awkward, always got my back and seems to really care about me too, just a perfect dude
>How did you meet them?
just started talking online one day ages ago
>How are things going with them?
Doesn't feel the same way, which fucking hurts cause I feel like shit about it and I know I'd feel amazing if we could just be together, but neither of us are gay anyway so it would just be weird, I think I'm open to it but he isn't, shitty situation to be in, but still love the guy
I don't think you can call someone you were apparently everything to and who apparently 'loved' you, but now hates and regrets you, and views you as nothing, a crush.
>>16816667
My boyfriend of five years.
>What are they like?
He's charismatic, perfectionist, funny as hell in a way that I have never seen. Very strange on top of it all. Always has our group of friends cracking up. Ambitious but also carefree and optimistic at the same time. Has a lot of pride, gets disappointed and hurt if it's broken. Frustrates easily, generally because of his perfectionist attitude on everything.
>What do you like about them?
I like that we have similar interests and world views, but our personalities are very opposite. I'm generally serious, sensitive, and sarcastic. He's always joking, optimistic, and playful. Our friend who is very happy for our relationship, once told us that we fit like perfect puzzle pieces. I feel like we have amazing chemistry. I have not connected with anyone the way I do with him. I like the way we complement each other. He brings me up and out, I ground him when he needs me to.
>How did you meet them?
I met him when I was 14 and he was 17. He was actually my older brothers friend and always came by our house. That was when I first saw him. I had been attracted to him since but he always seemed like someone too cool for me. We started dating when I was 18 and he was 21 though. It's weird, I had so many expectations of him and that was why I liked him so much. I kinda put him on a pedestal. When we started dating, I started seeing what kind of person he actually was. It wasn't disappointing, but more eye opening and humbling, made me like him more.
>How are things going with them?
The beginning of our relation from 2010-2012 was roller coaster-ish. Very passionate sex with very passionate arguments. From near the end of 2013 to current. It feels like I'm dating/in love with my best friend. Which is amazing. We've calmed down over the years, become much more compassionate and companion-ish. Still have amazing sex though so it's the best of both worlds.
>>16828660
It turns out I had nothing to worry about at all and we're doing something tomorrow. She's just really bad at answering.
I need to stop worrying so goddamn much, it won't be good if we start a relationship.
Thanks to >>16827379 again for telling me to pick up my nuts
He's absolutely gorgeous - dark curly short hair, blue eyes, tall, contained, gentle and softly spoken, sexy as hell, beautiful, musical, inspirational, passionate, heavenly kisses, exciting, intense staring and seduction, irresistible like the light of the night, my morning dew and misty hills, streets of empty souls between us, my life
>>16831266
What a homo. Get a grip.
