what do

>>16810400

what are you imagining?

>>16810415
tentacle stuff
having a penis and fucking my boyfriend
dudes self-sucking
gay stuff

Like I'd be fine with that stuff if I was able to still orgasm as quickly from the more vanilla stuff. And if it wasn't carrying over into when I was actually having sex

>>16810425

is the imagination carrying over, or the sex itself is being tailored to fit your fetishes?

anywho the best thing you can generally do is just stop masturbating. make sex only about the sex.

>>16810433
For the most part my imagination hasn't touched the sex part, and it's still hot. The only part where shit's getting weird is that the past few times he went down on me, I started to fantasize that I had a dick and he was sucking it. That's where I was like yeah okay, this is a problem.

The only thing that makes me hesitant to quit masturbating is that I tend to get grumpy and pissy when I haven't had an orgasm in a few days

>>16810442

might be incentive to fuck more often. my reocmmendation is go as long as you can with just sex, but if you got more than 2 or 3 days inbetween, go ahead and masturbate, but focus on non weird stuff

>BUT MY MIND WANDERS TO WEIRD STUFF!!1!

yes, but when you do, catch yourself, and think of non weird stuff. write up a sign that say s'dont be weird' and have it out while you finger yourself if u must. it'll take time but it gets easier.

>>16810453
Yeah, I have no idea when I'm going to have sex again. I'm in a LDR, so I'll just have to try keeping it more vanilla until it starts working again

I didn't it was possible to not use porn
Trying imagining yourself not imagining weird shit

>>16810486
Imagination can be great. It means I can masturbate anywhere and everywhere, especially the shower. It just sucks that the weird shit is at least twice as hot as the more vanilla stuff, and that the weird shit can give me an orgasm in under two minutes depending on how I do it. I'll start off imagining normal vanilla stuff, but then I get impatient and switch to something weirder so that my shower doesn't take forty minutes

any more advice?

>>16810425
Not all that weird desu, I've fantasized about all that stuff before.
For advice, I suppose you can try to "train" yourself sorta, you're saying it takes you longer to orgasm if you fantasise about vanilla stuff, but try to get yourself off imagining 'normal' things if imagining odd stuff bothers you.
Also invest in a vibe to "bridge the gap" from taking too long when fantasizing about vanilla stuff.