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2016-02-11 20:00:35 Post No. 16795564
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Anonymous
2016-02-11 20:00:35
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Okay so I'm gonna give initials to those involved.
Friend 1 G
Friend 2 B
Friend 3 J
Me H
This was two weeks ago
Okay so G ignored all friends over the weekend and B called H on Sunday crying about how worried he was about G and how they weren't close and how G had been posting that she wanted to get new friends etc
Monday, all friends CALMLY confronted G and poured hearts out, offering care and support and G told friends to go away. That night, H tried to talk out the matter, but G was stubborn, no rude words exchanged. both satisfied it was sorted.
Tuesday, all called out to a room to talk it out, G said it was over she wanted to forget about it. All left the roof satisfied it was done. That night, G texted B to tell him that sh
wanted no more to do with H and she was pulling out of a holiday.
No more contact was made between BHJ and G.
Saturday night, H gets drunk and sends texts to G, asking to sort it out and that G was loved by all friends. Sunday morning, G replies that she doesn't want to be friends with BHJ and isn't going on group holiday.
Monday, G claims H harassed her, H disciplined.
Rest of the week, G spreads nasty rumors about BHJ etc.
BHJ very hurt but still strong together.
Basically, I don't want G to be my friend but I cant cope at all knowing she's being spiteful. None of BHJ have told anyone of the fallout.
*whelp* someone offer me advice on how to actually move on and cope with seeing G daily.
-note- this post was made for BHJ to read together, each is taking this individually at different levels. H being the worst, crying, skin flaking, hair falling out etc. Thanks in advance.