Relationship Issues.
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/ call me a pussy or what not, just need to know the next step. /
- 19 y.o
- Feelings for friend of 6 years.
- Fucked a couple of times.
- She lives roughly 200 kilometres away, not sure in miles, 130 miles roughly.
- Stays with her.
- Confesses feelings.
- Shit gets deep.
Here's the part I need advice for.
She tells me :
- She could very easily grow feelings for me.
- I'm not open enough, not full on enough, she wants someone to be "full on". (I don't understand)
Okay, so I'm more open with her than ANYONE. I tell her everything I believe is worth speaking.
I don't understand what she meant by full on, maybe super serious relationship?
She doesn't reply fast, I try not to send multiple messages because I don't want to seem desperate.
Being 2 hours drive away, and being close to homeless me, I can't be there every second day.
She has family where I live, we attended school together etc.
What is my next move Chan?
I'm stumped, confused and getting anxious over it all.
She wants you to be open and honest with her. Tell her your feelings when you're feeling them (don't bottle them up then explode).
In my experience, I had that bottling problem when I met my bf. He would get upset if I didn't tell him every little thing that bothered me. After awhile of wanting to please him, I changed, I started telling him everything all the time. This eventually led him to get an annoyed look, like "oh no, here comes the complaining." So now Ive resorted to pretending I'm happy about things when I'm really not to avoid that look.
My advice is don't over share because you might be seen as weak. Tell her important things.
You could be open right now by asking her to give you examples of what she means by "full on".
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