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>21m
>confident but probably too cautious
>work with cute girl i like
>thinks she likes me as well
How do i ask her out without soiling our friendship or looking like a creep if she doesnt actually like me?
>been in relationships before, always started shortly after meeting the person, rather than getting to know them, and then asking them out.
How do i do this? Help
>>16786653
You cannot control what someone else thinks.
Generally speaking, unless you make some big deal out of asking or a big deal out of being rejected, it won't affect anything. This is not true for all people.
>>16786653
Test the waters without getting in too deep.
Have a non-date date. The next time you're chatting say something like "It's been fun but we have to get back to work. Would you like to get together for coffee/coke/drink after work to continue the conversation?"
If that goes well, you can ask her out with more confidence.