I'm a gay male grad student and there's a really cute

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2016-02-07 08:53:49 Post No. 16777753
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Anonymous 2016-02-07 08:53:49 Post No. 16777753 [Report]

I'm a gay male grad student and there's a really cute undergrad (pic unrelated) in a mixed grad/undergrad course I'm taking. I'm not certain that he's gay/bi but I think he might be. We talk every day before class.

I really want to go out with him but I'm nervous that he won't be gay/bi and I'm nervous about the ensuing awkwardness if he isn't interested. I've never actually asked someone out except online, which was also the only date I had (along with two more with the same guy after). I mainly am just totally inexperienced and feel like I child and don't know what to do. If I should ask him out, I have no idea how to do so or to let him know that I'm interested.

Any advice?

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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:02:25 Post No.16777779
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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:02:25 Post No.16777779 [Report]

Not sure because I've never been in your shoes, but if I was, I'd hang out with him outside of class. Get to know him better. Easy to find out if he's open to dating guys. Plus you'll be closer to him. Two birds.

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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:04:47 Post No.16777784
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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:04:47 Post No.16777784 [Report]

>>16777779
This quit being a faggot and ask that young lad out.

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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:06:03 Post No.16777791
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Anonymous 2016-02-07 09:06:03 Post No.16777791 [Report]

Does he know you're gay?

Like >>16777779 said, your best bet at this stage is just to get to know each other as friends. If you can establish that you enjoy each other's company and he's willing to intentionally spend time with you, you've at least got a chance, and if he's got a girlfriend or something it'll probably come up in conversation.