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dating someone while hung up on ex
2016-02-07 05:49:25 Post No. 16777287
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dating someone while hung up on ex
Anonymous
2016-02-07 05:49:25
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is it wrong to date someone you know really likes you if you're still hung up on or still borderline in love with your ex?
I'm 19 and broke up with my ex in December (merry fucking Christmas) because we wanted to go in drastically different directions in life, physically and professionally. it fucking ripped me apart, even though I put on a brave face and said I was fine with it. we still talk, snapchat sometimes, but not that much. but when he does I still get that rush and butterflies from when we first met, and still sometimes can't help but think about what our future together would have been like. I've never really thought about anyone like that before. he's the only person I've ever cried over since I was very young
but now I've met someone who is really great. I know I'd like him if my mind wasn't on my ex all the time, and he really really wants to start dating. I've tried bringing up my feelings for my ex before, and he seems to get very upset and I feel guilty so I stop
I guess my question is, should I just try and wait until I get over my ex first (fuck knows when that will be), or just go for it and hope my feelings for the new guy become strong enough to help me get over my ex? would that be unfair to the new guy?