>live in small rural town
>final semester of highschool
>male
>having some drama with this girl who spreads shit around
>she knows that i have a secret bdsm fetish
>one im extremely ashamed of
>could totally picture her sharing that
What should I do if it gets out? I have no idea how people will respond since I live in a small town and don't want to be labelled a freak or a potential rapist or something. Should I deny everything if it gets brought up?
Does she have pics? If not, then who gives a shit. Work on your poker face.
Or just own it.
>>16773380
Preemptive strike. She can't do shit if you release the info first.
Why do you care if they care? It's no big deal really, beside your sexual fetishes aren't their business. Why are you ashamed of it? Seriously it's no big deal.
Are small town people really that uneducated they might label you a rapist? I mean you can't rape the willing.
>>16773447
>Are small town people really that uneducated they might label you a rapist?
Not everyone but enough of them are retarded that i'd rather avoid it.
>>16773445
But then I'd look like a dumb faggot who constantly pushes their sexuality on other people where it isn't wanted or needed
>>16773388
>Or just own it
A part of me actually wants to do that. If I lived in a more liberal and urban environment, fuck yeah but I'd choose to avoid it for now.
bamp
>Hey guys! Anon is into BDSM! What a freak!
>lol, sure I am. ps why are you so interested in my sex life, creep?
Literally just say something like that.
I'm sure a surprisingly large portion of them have fetishes as well. If not, they probably would be interested in them. Don't even be embarrassed about it.
own up to it or act totally indifferent to it
>"omg, anon is a sexual deviant!"
>yes, and...?
>>16774310
You know what? There's only 4 fucking months left. Who gives a shit? That's how I'll react if it happens
You only have a few months left. I'm sure you can handle it.
