In love with one of my best friends of five years but don't want to ruin our friendship in case she doesn't feel the same
Advice?
Theres no harm in trying, but lets be serious. If nothing happened in 5 years, chances are nothing will. Dont delude yourself and go find someone that will want to actually be with you, because of you. Dont be a beta fag orbiter anon
>>16678924
I mean. She's been acting a lot different lately. More touchy and more attentive towards me out of all of our friends but I'm afraid she's not and I'm just over thinking it.
radiator pipes are painful, man
>>16678937
if you spill your feelings youre gonna mess everything up. just be calm, let things unfold naturally and let her do the work
>>16678960
Wat. Thats bullshit.
Op, try it out, and no, u can still stay friends if shes not into it.
>>16678973
actually i am the raidator pipe guy
>>16678973
what?
>>16678989
don't listen to this guy if you don't wanna suffer for the rest of your life
jesus christ the conflicting opinons are real
>>16679011
No shit, it's almost like this is an anonymous assyrian beard-woven graphic novel board with multiple users
Thing is, anon, you'll regret not doing anything, not telling her or not even asking her out. You may have convinced yourself you'll be fine just with friendship, but you won't. These feelings will always hide somewhere within you and you'll end up hamging and wondering what if.
I say, at least try.
>>16679043
Yeah, but don't try by 'confessing', that's sure to turn her off unless she's already extremely into you.
Play it slow
Funny I was in the same situation, do it OP. We went on a couple of dates and in it didn't work out but man was it a confident boost, didn't have it eating me up any more.
