So I useto get tormented and ripped off during high school. After high school I ended up getting taller and wider, even people that useto rip me off came upto me and I was twice their size, ive been lifting for 5 years now and have reasonable gains and Ive started college. I cant seem to form proper relationships with guys but no problem with girls.
Why is this? This idiot bud of mine who I dont classify as a good friend just someone I've known for the past 10 years I guess, he sometimes tries to make things goes his way and when he does I avoid him at all costs until he comes crawling back, then he said to me today that I'll never be a winner and Im a loser and no-one wants to be around me?
You've just landed a couple of shitty friends. In your case, you've got at least one super shitty friend. He definitely deserved a punch in the kisser for that bullshit.
What do you mean make things go his way?
>>16675726
he'll want something or if im at work he thinks im lying or just wants me to drop anything im doing to benefit him
What prompted his accusation
>>16675738
He seemed angry because I didn't want to go get food with him because I was at work and told me I'm going nowhere in life and seemed pretty angry, i addressed to him that I am the one commencing college and he has done nothing with his life, no job, no licence, no career then he said what I have written above
Have you tried to be more positive?
And you should dump friends who don't add something to your life.
For example i have this friends who is a complete failure, but when i go to his home you can feel a great ambience of peace and we usually smoke and laugh even with his mom.
I makes me really calm
>>16675758
Yes I have tried to suggest things because hes going nowhere, he always says he wouldnt change anything...I dont get it
I swear he tried to fk with my head, he'll ask em how uni is going then when I tell him he'll reply with something like "what type of reaction do you want? a good on you man,?"
why bother asking if he dosent care
>>16675706
cut people like this out of your life
>>16675823
I have now
>>16675751
Cut him off.
>>16675880
how do you form relationships with actual non fukwit people?
