I can't get my dick enough hard with my girlfriend. I can get it like 50-75% hard but it's not enough. I have to be rock hard so that we can even get my dick in her, since she is pretty tight. Pretty much always when we have sex it's just me giving her a hand and then jacking off on her face or something. She really wants some dick tho, and I even though she is supporting and understanding, I can see how disappointed and frustrated she is every time. We have been having sexual intercourse weekly for the last 2 months now, and It's always the same. What the fuck can I do? Everyone says "just more practise and relaxation", but fuck that. I'm getting tired of not being able to fuck her. Should I honestly just try some viagra.
Had that happen before. Have you tried doing more foreplay or trying something different to get you harder.
Are you sure she's disappoint? you can do a lot more with her than outright dick in vag. Or put on a man strap on. unless you just wanna put it in without goin limp. If so maybe try viagra
Do you have any mental hangups about dating her? About sex in general? Can you get hard no problem in other situations?
edging maybe? like jack it or have her work on you til you're solid then go for it?
>>16663243
What the fuck is a man strap on?
>>16663252
Strap on but your dick goes inside it I think. It's like an extension I guess. Sounds incredibly humiliating
>>16663243
Well, once she said "I don't understand how fucking hard can it be, no man I've been with has every had this problem before". She apologized afterwards but I can see that she is mad and frustrated sometimes after I fail to get it in. I pleasure her with my hand but she always starts grabbing my dick and putting her hand in my pants, and whispering something like "put your dick in please". She doesnt like any items, she just wants my dick.
>>16663252
hollowed out dildoe that you put yourself inside. with straps like for lesbians.
>>16663249
This is what we do every time. I jack myself off right on the edge of cumming and then it goes soft when we try putting it in.
Do you have like, performance anxiety or something? I wonder if the anxiety of HAVING to get really hard and fuck her hard affects your ability to just enjoy it
Have you ever had this problem with anyone else?
>>16663257
ow. what a cunt. i can understand frustration but it isnt fair to take it out on you. does she always so impulsive?
>>16663232
Have you tried not watching porn. Have you tried to stop fapping. This is the road to recovery.
If its just that you fap too much or in some way wrong then thats doesnt take too long to fix. (wrong for you and her, what works for some doesnt work for everyone).
If its porn as well then youre fucked.
Heres so questions. can you get an erection from her alone. If not probably porn but again could be just fapping. If you can get an erection can she get you off with a handjob (if no fapping wrong).
The solution is pretty much to stop watching porn all together and to fap as lightly as possible while thinking of nothing sexual. That being said when this happened to me I thought of my girl. Worked for me even though they say to fap to nothing.
If youre doing it as lightly as possible then its going to be a different sensation and youre not going to be able to get off at first. Took me about 2 weeks to learn how to orgasm from the new fapping method.
Here another question. Can you only get hard while touching your dick. If so youre fapping too much. Id start with the light fapping and then pretty much no fapping and porn is always a no. Its going to suck but at some point youre going to get so horny from not fapping that looking at girls in bikinis will make you hard again like youre a little kid.
Worst part about this. Usually takes 90 days to fix. Took me 70 days so theres a chance for you if you are lucky.
Maybe do some exciting foreplay. Ask her to do something related to your fetishes.
Also do you use lube? I know that sounds like a dumb question but some girls get wet enough to not need any.
