>go pick up my gf at her grandmas
>before going inside her house she tells me not to say my last name around her or her family
>she tells me they're "special"
>she tells me she already heard enough from them roasting her for having a bf with a last name like mine
>her whole family on mom's side are racist, classist cunts and were talking shit about me
I'm probably gonna be in a situation soon where I have to meet them, maybe even tomorrow. what do. I can't confront them without looking like an asshole
What is it about your name?
>>16662686
Its a pretty common last name in the city and sometimes people associate it with lower class.
>>16662703
Is it Nigger? It is, ain't it?
>>16662682
are you a brit?
>>16662717
>>16662728
Nah, Im not brit or black or poor
you should marry her and make her take your last name just to fuck with them
u a jew OP?
I've had this same experience if so.
>>16662735
Where are you from where classism due to your last name is a big deal? Ive never heard of such a thing in the US
Racism sure, but not classism
>>16662738
Nah, but Im curious how you went about it
>>16662736
She actually joked about it because shes the only non lesbian girl who's old enough on her side
>>16662742
The south or the east coast probably
>>16662750
I am from the south. American names are so mixed up they never struck me as having much meaning. Not like european nobility or anything like that
>>16662748
It didn't work out in the end, but it wasn't because of the family directly. I mean I saw that she let her family disrespect me for essentially looking 'jewy' and having a jewish last name even though I'm not really religious at all. I don't really give a shit what the parents think, but she never said anything to change their minds.
I want my partner to have my back. If she won't stand up to her parents a bit then she's not worth it man.
