Final thing i am convinced she likes me due to making sexual comments about me. and she once called me a asshole (in the pua community it means you struck gold she likes you) so without dumping all the info i have learned and suffering a heartbreak i need advice on how to be more confident.

>>16658773
>being a nice guy never worked for me and ended in heartbreak so i must be a asshole no way around it
this is an 18+ site, OP. You can't be here.

>>16658789
When i was a teen i tried that nice guy shit and have changed.

Now i am done with my teen years but have anxiety's that stem from my childhood and failed relationships

>>16658773

Women don't dislike nice guys, they dislike boring guys.

You can try being an asshole, you'll still just be unpleasant.

Let her do the talking.

>>16658802
But at least you won't be boring, so your reasoning is flawed like holes in cheese.

>>16658807
Sure thing Meltem.

>>16658802
I spend my spare time working on standup most (who have seen me live) don't think i am boring the asshole personality has me bulking up lifting weights and all the asshole traits like sarcasm and backhanded compliments.

>>16658808
Have you never met a boring asshole? They exist and they're terrible to be around

>>16658830
Final post for the night as i mentioned i do standup and have been seen by girls as funny but i am not a boring asshole just a asshole.

>>16658802
>they dislike boring guys
and guess what nice guys are